Celebrate Differences!

Through The Eyes Of Autism - My Five Year Old Boy!
Canada
October 21, 2008 11:12pm CST
October is Autism Awareness Month In Canada For the sake of 1 out of every 150-160 children who have an ASD Please take the time to read on! - ASD stands for Autism Spectrum Disorder - ASD is a complex neurological disorder with no known cause or cure - ASD features certain behaviors which come in several combinations and in degrees of intensity/severity that vary in each individual - Signs of ASD are usually present by age two but can appear as early as a year - ASD is four times more prevalent in boys than girls Now that you've read some facts..... Here are some things you can do to Support A Person With Autism or Aspergers 1. Put the individual first by not using labels like "autistic" 2. Recognize the person's unique strengths and talents 3. Use Visuals to teach 4. Understand that behavior is communication 5. Assist with social interactions 6. Be aware of possible sensory sensitivities 7. Offer choices as often as possible 8. Give lots of positive praise 9. Be consistent in your daily schedule 10.Give warning about any change in schedule (Use a timer if necessary) 11.Think of autism as a different set of abilities 12.Share your knowledge about autism with someone you know Celebrate Differences! First of all I want to thank you for taking the time to read this and get educated on behalf of my son and so many other children who view the world through the eyes of Autism. Please have patience and understand that these children are not bad nor are they poorly parented but their brains are wired differently and they are actually quite bright! We just have to do our best to find a way to bring them out of their world into ours.....There Is Hope! Please feel free to share any stories you have about Autism or individuals that have touched your life or just what you have learned about seeing the world through the eyes of autism! Again, My Boy and Several others thank you for taking the time to read this! Knowledge is Power! ~Heavens~
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
24 Oct 08
AS you know, I work with developmentally disabled adults, they are all autistic and MR plus a host of many other things and some of them are among the nicest people I have ever met. I get kisses and hugs from my guys and feel honored. You just need to give them a chance -- and you can't help but love them.
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
25 Oct 08
I certainly do drop by fo you...today was a good day. I got a hug from one of the guys who is a limited contact kind of guy. He is usually happy but he is also scared by loud noises and active people. At home he prefers his room and at his day program is usually quiet and distant-- but just so darn cute. Today, I went to talk to him, he said hug and gave me one....I felt so honored. He has learned to trust me and feels comfortable enough to ask for a hug and give one -- I think this is about the highest honor one can get.
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• Canada
25 Oct 08
Wow! You definitely did have a good day! I must say you are a very special person! ~Heavens~
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• Canada
25 Oct 08
Thanks Deb I was hoping you would drop by here! It is sad that in three days I have so few responses....It is hard to get the word out if no one reads it! You are so right about how we need to give them a chance and no, you can't help but love them! ~Heavens~
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
22 Oct 08
Thank you for sharing this info heavenschild, since I am trying to get a job in the school system, it would be nice to know more about challenges that some kids may have that I might be working with..I didn't get called up this last time, but still trying to get my foot in the door, and you never know, I might have the pleasure of working with someone like your child..And the more knowledge I have, the better..
• Canada
23 Oct 08
Thanks Carmela! I wish there were more out there who were willing to get educated! You are my second response and no others in nearly twenty two hours! I feel like people have no desire to learn and in turn our children suffer for it! I do appreciate your friendship and support! I am glad that I was able to inform you and please feel free to pass on this discussion to anyone you know who may benefit! HUGS ~Heavens~
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• Canada
24 Oct 08
Thanks Carmela! I so hate to give a BR when it has only two responses but it has been three days now...Very sad and heart breaking to me! My other discussions as of late have been averaging around twenty responses....I get so discouraged with my Autism topics and keep praying more will read and respond...To get the word out! ~Heavens~
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• United States
23 Oct 08
I think what some people don't realize is, if they don't learn about it one way, they will another..My daughters nephew on her husbands side is a little autisic, but I don't know how much since I don't see him often.. But the few times I have, either he has it mildly or the family works really well with him, because he does seem to connect with the family, but has some social problems, especially dealing with his younger cousins.. So I don't have experience, but I have a little knowledge..
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• Canada
27 Oct 08
Thank you for posting this. As someone with Aspergers, I am happy that you are making more people aware. I actually dind't know that this was Autism Month in Canada, and I am a Canadian. Hmmm... I guess we learn something new every day. Thanks again for sharing this with us.
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• Canada
27 Oct 08
Hello danishcanadian! I did not know that it was Autism Awareness Month either until I received a newsletter in the mail from one of the organizations that is involved with my son...I always thought it was Just April 2nd but to have a whole month set aside is really great! ~Heavens~
@Foxxee (3650)
• United States
26 Oct 08
I learn something new everyday! I didn't know Autism Awareness was in October in Canada. Here in the US Autism Awareness is the month of April. Thanks for spreading the knowledge! Foxxee [Yes my son has Autism, no he's not like Rainman!]
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@Foxxee (3650)
• United States
27 Oct 08
Autism Awareness is all month long in the US... is it the same there? All month for October or just one day?? Me & my family try to involve others with us when we go to Autism Awareness events. We are going on the Autism Walk in Oklahoma for APril 2009... :) It's our first walk & I'm looking forward to it!
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• Canada
26 Oct 08
Yes, National Autism Awareness Day is April 2nd but October is Awareness month here as well as Brest cancer of course...Have no idea why this is but it is. Thanks for responding here! ~Heavens~
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• Canada
27 Oct 08
The whole month of October and then Nationally on April 2nd ~Heavens~
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@someonesmom (5761)
• Canada
22 Oct 08
Hi heavens, I really appreciate your discussion here, and the wealth of information you've provided. It's very touching. From what I've observed, autism is often quite the lonely journey, for both the child, and parents alike. You do a terrific job, in getting the best of help for your son, with all of the resources you do have. It is my sincere wish that 'others' will read this topic, and respond accordingly. Your boy has gained ground in leaps and bounds, with all of the excellent care he's receiving. I shudder to think what may have happened, if he hadn't received his diagnosis when he did, and the resulting therapy. Along with the endless devotion you display, in making sure he is integrated into the mainstream of things, is the tireless work of his therapist. These things have made such a remarkable difference in his progress, and his therapist is 'truly an angel.' For me, the biggest change I've noticed concerning the little guy I know, is the fact that he's gone from non verbal to verbal. It's truly heartwarming to observe the change this has brought about in him. I am thrilled to hear him interacting with his mom, when I'm speaking with her on the phone. His communication skills are growing daily. It is very obvious to me when I see him, the amount of time and effort that has been devoted to him. What a difference this has made! Where would these families be, without the dedication of hard working therapists? These individuals are definitely 'unsung heroes.' Sadly, this very necessary support, comes at a high price (literally). So many families can't afford the amount of hours their child needs, with a professional provider. The need for changes at a government level, as to how 'they' perceive autism, are very real. It's one of my dreams to see autism recognized by them, and to have them put funding in place for therapy, etc. No family should have to do without for their 'special child,' due to lack of finances. I believe too, that it took 'courage' for you to post this topic, as I know you've been disappointed in the past, when you've introduced similar ones. Take care. Big Hugs to you and your boy.
• Canada
23 Oct 08
Well Mom it has been twenty one hours now and I am not surprised that there are only two responses....I was hoping for more as I just want to get the word out! I came home from work last night and saw a news letter on the table that had come to us in the mail reminding me that October was Autism Awareness Month and so I did hesitate but I decided that the word needs to get out and so I compiled this and posted this anyway! I still hope that more catch it tomorrow or in the future some time! Thanks so much for your love, support, and encouragement as always...You know I do not always feel as strong as I come across to be! I agree that the government needs to step in but with all the protest at parliament hill and all the letters wrote by parents, nothing seems to change or at least not fast enough! I want to thank you for coming in and being first...I truly do appreciate your support! Love and Hugs ~Heavens~
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• Canada
25 Oct 08
You're very welcome. I'm happy to see that you do have a couple of additional responses. I have no idea if 'a lot' of our friends notifications are acting up again. I have noticed however, that at least one 'mutual' friend of ours is MIA at the moment. I know this happens from time to time (with this friend). I 'know' things are hard for you finance wise right now, as far as your son's therapy is concerned. You've mentioned that he's on a special waiting list for his therapy to be paid for, I believe. His number on the list was getting lower, so am wondering if there's any progress there? Love and Hugs to you.
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• Canada
26 Oct 08
He's number nine Mom! That averages out to roughly one spot per month unless it starts moving faster... I have no idea how long it is going to be! ~Heavens~
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