R U So Much Of A Giver.........?
By taripres
@taripres (1499)
United States
October 24, 2008 7:42pm CST
I'm such a big giver and that's great, I usually assume! But, the problem comes in when people notice that and takes full advantage of your kindness!! I always seem to be taken advantage of, but can't help but to try n help people! Seem to always put myself last, it's like I'm drawn to it. I used to be pretty selfish and kinda mean, now I think maybe subconsciously, I'm trying to make up for something I did! Don't know, but I can't close the door on people!
Taripre$
2 responses
@redkathy (3374)
• United States
25 Oct 08
Yep I am. My hubby asks why I don't care when people are justing using me for whatever the help may have been. I do what I do because that is what I am supposed to do. Maybe my "always helping" stance will rub off on others you know. If not, I'm still doing what I should.
I think the solution to all the worlds problems is simply this, helping and caring about people you are in contact with. Notice I didn't say to have to "like everyone" just care!
Keep on my friend, keep on!
@taripres (1499)
• United States
22 Nov 08
Sounds like me and my girl! She always gets on me about helping people and no one seems to want to try n help me now that I'm in my situation! I understand her, but my position is, I don't look for people to help me. If they do, fine, if not, I still have to do what I have to do regardless!
Taripre$
Taripre$
@arunmails (3011)
• India
25 Oct 08
I am not such a big giver... but, I usually give something to the person who really suffer.....
Then, there are those who can't or don't have the means to help themselves that get left out!
Taripre$