Why do some things come so easy for some?

I think it is how we look at things in life. Why do you feel that you are no better than before? Are you referring to it financially? If it is, then there is a need to look into our finances much closer. Recently I did just that, after having a baby and quitting my job. It does seem that I may have to go back to work if things do not turn out well, but we try our best! The thing is when people say that they have tried their best, is it really their best? I think I have not really tried my best in life. I'm slowly looking into each aspect of my life to improve them. Finances is one of the major one I would suggest you look into. Then you can proceed to look into other family, social and religious orientations. All the best! Do not compare your life with others. That's my suggestion.