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heard? if only heard then i need to prove it or see it for myself. then if i prove it then i will confront my son. the other day the teacher called me at school and talked to me that my youngest daugther is spreading not true rumors at school. it was really painful for me that my daugther has this trait at school. i talked to her, then talked to the teacher. i proved that the teacher is right and that my child was a chatter box and spreading rumors at school. i ground her for a week, cut her hair and told her that her grades should be high or else i will cut her hair again.

Talk to my son, the teacher and find out what I can do from home, what can the teacher do from school and well that's pretty much it, There will be consequences but a lot of talk between us and my son.

Depends on who you heard it from , and also, his age.... But I would just probably sit them down and have a chat....

I would first investigate who said that and what made them say so. Then I will talk to my son and try to find out what made him do the those things. If the boy is young, then probably bec he didn't think it was wrong, if he is a bit older then chances are he is struggling something and that is the only way he can express himself. Whatever it may be, its a sure sign that I have to spend more time with my boy, so I can understand him better and help him in his growing up years

what if i heard my child influence to all his classmates them i would reflect it first to my guidance to my child why is it ... that we was influence by his classmates in a wrong way.... a child wont be curious to try for that matter if we parents tell them well what is right or wrong we guide them in the right path that they are going to take upon proceeding their proper way.

the question is how old is your child. different age needs different approach. it may be easier to sit down and talk to your child if he is more than 10 years old. for younger than that, you would first have to find out the reason for him being a bad influence, like what he did. from there, make an assessment if it is because of upbringing in the family or something he had picked up outside, maybe in school,or from neighbours etc. then slowly work down to change ih. it will take time and he needs to understand why he needs to change. also i think if the teacher says that he is a bad influence, they would also be able to offer some advices and assistance. correct them while young and he will grow up to be a fine young man. maybe, he is mischievous but nothing more than that. i used to draw a lot of complaints from my teacher too but not because i am bad or rotten but rather mischievous and disturbing to classmates when lessons were ongoing.

It is according to whom i hear it from. If it is teacher i would find out the problem and try to help my child deal with whatever his problem is so that he can be content without getting everyone into trouble.

in what way is he apparntly a bad influance? how old is your son?