Have you succeeded in finding your identity?

By Bala
@balasri (26537)
India
November 1, 2008 12:46pm CST
How do you like to be identified by the others?
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13 responses
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
3 Nov 08
Hi Bala Well, i would not say that i have found my identity as here on Mylot, u dont find ur identity, but sure people might give u some identity based on ur post, discussions and replies. but i dont think its ur real identity??? u might be totally differnt in REAL life. but sure u might be given some identity in Virtual World and i think, i am know as FRIEND here at Mylot Take care
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@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Nov 08
I am what I am in real life in Mylot too.
@balasri (26537)
• India
5 Nov 08
Thanks cupid.
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
5 Nov 08
Thats nice bala jeee transparency is best, keep it up
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
7 Nov 08
How do you identify me, balasri? I would be interested in knowing. I'll look forward to your answer.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
7 Nov 08
I identify you as a goof mother and a great friend.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
7 Nov 08
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
2 Nov 08
As an honest, caring and dedicated person. This is the identity i want to be identified by today. I've had some soem rather different and interesting ones in the past though.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
There won't be much difficulty to be identified that way.That shows very much in your discussion. And don't we all have a past?Aren't the past and future mere illusions?
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
3 Nov 08
Depends on who I'm with. Sweet and kind people, I like when they think I'm that. Tough and mean people (who I try to avoid), I want them to think I'm tougher and meaner than they are.
@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Nov 08
A great way to be identified friend.
@GreenMoo (11833)
2 Nov 08
I think our identity changes with us as we mature and discover what is important to us. So the identity I had some years ago is no longer valid, and I expect that the identity I aspire to now will not suit me twenty years from now as I will have changed again.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Nov 08
This is a very thoughtful response.
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
2 Nov 08
Hi Bala...So far I have been busy trying to fit into the identity expected from me by society,playing different roles,and I have done and given my best in each demanding role . But now surprisingly ,I still have a lot of steam left in me,and am determined to spent the rest of my days living for myself and doing something good for society...
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@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
Very noble determination.My wishes are with you Rose.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
2 Nov 08
Thanks friend.....
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
4 Nov 08
No, not yet, if you ask for the identity we make for ourselves. I am supposedly a nice girl who would hardly tell lies or resort to unfair means to anyone: but then, that's what my parents have taught me. its but their values that have been imparted since childhood Again, i am sweet and strong, could be very strong if i am stung by life: that's again a contribution of my family. I do not think i have done nything on my own. my identity is largely theirs. having said this, i would want my identity to be very much on the same path as my parents. they are greatest people on earth.
@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Nov 08
It is great to know that you have chosen to stick to the identity nurtured by your parents.They must be great people.Not everyone has the chance to have such good parents who instill good values into their sweet young ones who try to make it their identity.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
2 Nov 08
I know that there are quite a few people who use their profession or family name to identify themselves. They might even name a few well known friend's to make them feel like somebody special. They might even brag about the club or cliques that they belong to, in order to impress others. The only way that I ever want to be seen is as a child of the most high God. I do my best to live up to the name my father has given me.
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
You definitely will be identified as one.I have known you for a ling time in mylot.I know how pious and spiritual are you through your discussions.
@Mirita (2668)
• United States
1 Nov 08
I'm just an optimistic person trying my best to make the right choices in life. My goal in life is to be a productive and good human being ,and for God to make me successful ,so I can help others in whatever way I can. When we are blessed is essential to spread all the blessings.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
Your identity will be instantly recognizes by everyone Mirita.You are a good person.
@Daffodil20 (1754)
• India
5 Nov 08
Have I succeeded in finding my identity yet? Not fully. Sometimes I feel I know who I am, but certain situations make me wonder what I am. I am yet in the process of discovering myself. But I know for sure that I love life, myself (barring a few occassions, lol) and have tremendous respect and love for every other living being. I want others to know me exactly as I am and one thing extra (which I am not really)......that is.....people should identify me as an intelligent person too. well! who knows.....someday I might wake up with loads of it.
@balasri (26537)
• India
5 Nov 08
Dear Daffodil Fjaril has told everything I wanted to say about you.Blessings.
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• India
5 Nov 08
what good deed did I do today? Showers of such lovely words. Do I deserve it. I must, otherwise you wouldn't have said so. I know you mean what you say. This I know about you (source: posts and responses -by fjaril). Thankyou You echoed the same sentiments I have for you. And this is not a fuzzy statement. I sincerely mean it too. balasri, now don't give that look. This space was destined to be dedicated to me.
• India
5 Nov 08
Thanks balasri for all the kind words and blessings.
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2 Nov 08
Hi balasri, I think as I am a quiet person but could be out going and very small person, I could be identify for that. Tamara
@balasri (26537)
• India
3 Nov 08
Quiet and out going is a great combination friend.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
2 Nov 08
I don't think I have gotten there quite yet, balasri. But I am getting there. I like people to think of me as that person who managed to advocate for those who don't have a voice.
@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
These kinds of serene wishes readily come true as they are in the priority list of God.
@SaintAnne (5453)
• United States
2 Nov 08
Thank you, Balasri. Your words couldn't be more encouraging and heartwarming.
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
i would like to be identified as a person that i am truly is.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
2 Nov 08
Good.I too want me to be liked for what I am.Others need not bother.