Who to choose ??
By jess07
@jess07 (319)
November 4, 2008 10:17am CST
hey,
I've got one hell of a probleme and i'm looking for anyone who has any advice to give.
So here is the deal, im going out with this guy and we get on really well but the only probleme is that my best friend is actually in love with him. She says that she's gotten over it and that she forgives me but it seems she jst can't keep her hands of,she's always following him about ,etc...
I don't know what to do, if i say anything she'll never talk to m again,even my Bf has had enough.
What should i do,i really don't want to have to choose !
2 responses
@daceyp (327)
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4 Nov 08
it is a difficult situation to be in.i have seen a few friends of mine go through this and in the end it just becomes to much and the friends end up falling out.then the bloke leaves and theyve lost a good friend.i know she said she was over but it just goes to show that shes not.did she end it with him or was it the other way round?if it was her shes prob realised what she has lost and wants it back.sounds like she really doesnt like to see him happy aswell.if you really like him and shes a true friend she would let you two get on with it.hope all goes well and you get it sorted
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
4 Nov 08
It's probably better that you don't stay with him if you can, because there's really no reason to make her suffer like that. I mean, if you can can. It really is hurting her more than you think if she still won't stop. It's probably best to get him out of the picture so she'll be able to move on.
