Do you Like it when Someone Watches you Play?
By ratyz5
@ratyz5 (7808)
Philippines
November 13, 2008 6:48am CST
Hello to all that like video gaming! (^_^ )
Whenever a game catches my attention, I wouldn't mind watching how it gets played. Perhaps a trailer, the intro or perhaps an ending of the game getting played or even an actual gamer playing the game.
Be it at arcades or at shops that let you play console games for a fee, if its one of those games that I like, I wouldn't mind watching for a few moments and see how the playing gamer would do.
Then I noticed that whenever I play video games at home, its always amusing when some of my brothers or sister would watch me play. Like one time, I was playing Tenchu Fatal Shadows and I was about to eliminate a non-suspecting enemy when it turned around and caught me approaching which alerted other enemies. My sister who was watching at that time got more disappointed than I was which was kind'a funny considering that she was just watching me play.. (^_^ )
How about you? Do you like it when someone watches you play video games?
Share some point of views on why you like or don't like it when someone is watching while you play if you want to. (^_^ )
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8 responses
@Zezlol (409)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Nov 08
It depends on the game and the person who's there. There are some games that I hate being watched while playing and there are others than are tons more fun with friends around. Shooters are an example of game genre that I don't mind having people around when playing. We laugh at stupid mistakes such as walking out into the open and getting sniped by accident, shooting an ally and then watching somebody in the same internet cafe yell out 'Who the hell shot me?!', etc, etc.
As for the person, this is where my opinion changes. I have a friend who has an annoying little brother. I don't really like playing many games around him. Shooters are fine, I guess, but he makes some comments that aren't needed and tends to enjoy telling me what to do more often than laugh at my mistakes.
In general, I enjoy playing games with people around but only if we're playing in turns. It's no fun to be the only one with the remote (or mouse) and having them just watch you. So yeah, I'm more of the type that likes laughing rather than hardcore gaming.
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Hmm I think its more fun to watch someone who is watching me play.
Cause like your sister, they are the most emphatic ones. Would shout when your character barely made a jump, would touch the screen or just point to where your character should go, and might give orders on what they want the character to do. Knowing full well that you have played the game a hundred times and know exactly what you need to do.
Its more fun to watch their reactions than to actually pay attention to the game that I was watching.^_^ But then again, there are those 'watchers' who doesnt just watch but would give you a nudge, a tap, and sometimes be bold enough to punch/slap your arm for not doing things the way that they'd want it.
Honestly, Im not much into others watching me play. That would just set expectations and might become distracting. But Im for it when its a group activity. I mean having friends over, playing against each other while the others are watching waiting for their turns. There would be a lot of screaming, teasing, laughs, taunts, jeers, and just plain having fun. Now, that's entertainment.
Cause like your sister, they are the most emphatic ones. Would shout when your character barely made a jump, would touch the screen or just point to where your character should go, and might give orders on what they want the character to do. Knowing full well that you have played the game a hundred times and know exactly what you need to do.
Its more fun to watch their reactions than to actually pay attention to the game that I was watching.^_^ But then again, there are those 'watchers' who doesnt just watch but would give you a nudge, a tap, and sometimes be bold enough to punch/slap your arm for not doing things the way that they'd want it.
Honestly, Im not much into others watching me play. That would just set expectations and might become distracting. But Im for it when its a group activity. I mean having friends over, playing against each other while the others are watching waiting for their turns. There would be a lot of screaming, teasing, laughs, taunts, jeers, and just plain having fun. Now, that's entertainment.@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
It is really nice to already know a game that you are playing and others that would be watching are all engrossed into it that you'd even let them get surprised and make them feel excited over things that have also made use feel excited when you first played the game. Those that would even dare touch me along with their comments and suggestions on playing a game would probably get a stern stare, of course that would be something rare if it does happen. Good thing nobody does that to me.
I also like group gaming. (^_^ )
Before, when the PSX console still was that dominant gaming item that would even get business by having it rented by gamers, I always enjoyed gaming with friends or classmates. Be it on fighting games, racing, especially that dance simulation with those dance pads that could also accommodate more than two gamers by enabling a group to take turns while playing. Crash Team Racing was some of the games that my classmates couldn't beat me so most of them took turns on the controller while I kept mine (^_^")
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
Well, if you really want to enjoy those watching you play, being manipulative gets you that kick out of it, I suppose. (^_^ )
Its probably because games that I do get to play at rental shops are those that I do know and by standers or those who are also playing with their games and end up watching my gameplay, perhaps while their game is being loaded, would either know what I am doing or know nothing about the game to comment about anything to it.
PSX is also known as the first PlayStation console released by Sony. If you were still living under a rock by those times, that rock must've been very accomodating for you since the PSX covered more years compared to the PlayStation 2 which only took a few years and then the PS3 became available.
Yeah, often the change the loser routine would be our type of gaming when we're more than two players. Winning more than a couple of times does get boring so you should at least lose a round or two but, make them disappointed when you really don't lose the match to get you dethroned (^_^")
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
Yeah, a but manipulative but definitely highly amusing.^_^
Yikes! You'd be that strict? as in 'no touch'(something like that) at all?
...yeah, good thing:p
PSX? I havent really come across that, not that Im aware of at least. WAs probably still living under a rock or something
Well, at least you got to enjoy it.
Oh, those "Challenge the winner" or "Change the Loser" kinda rule huh? That is fun, especially when the 'unbeatables' finally get dethroned.
...yeah, good thing:p
PSX? I havent really come across that, not that Im aware of at least. WAs probably still living under a rock or something
Well, at least you got to enjoy it.
Oh, those "Challenge the winner" or "Change the Loser" kinda rule huh? That is fun, especially when the 'unbeatables' finally get dethroned.
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@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Video games now are so different from the video games when i was young... i remember playing river raid, space invaders, galatian, and even pacman... but now... i don't think i will fit in with the ones...
To answer your question... yes... i am fine with others watching me play... as long as they are quiet... and not giving me tips on how to play my own game... if they do... then they will get a piece of my mind...
That situation is currently a rare occurance... since i don't play video games anymore...
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Game before were all about having fun after all.. as time went on, things just got improved and some games are even anticipated like those series of movies at the cinemas (^_^ )
I should keep that in mind if ever see you playing a video game then.. (^_^")
Rare... I guess.. similar to games changing from the usual graphics and satisfaction of merely playing the game, our priorities and interests also change.
Was really more into Pacman game though.. (^_^ ) but space invaders really seem to gather more recognition, especially at the place were it originated.
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@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
To tell you the truth... i was never good at space invaders... no matter how hard i try... unlike the other games where i believe i can even go in tournaments... but never had the chance to...
Right now... i prefer word games... like scrabble, crossword puzzles, word maze... kinda old... but then... that i how i was able to improve my choice of English word... which was quite poor in the past...
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Scrabble, I am really not good on making moves to improve my score count.. tried a friendly match with a classmate of mine before but, after that, competing didn't seemed like a good idea... (^_^ )
Other word games like those crossword puzzles.. I really can't get one done at all..
I could go with the Word Factory or I know more called as Boggle..
@semicolonp (518)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I don't mind either way. My brother and I often watch each other play games at home because we often continue where the other left off and it's very confusing when you don't know where in the gameplay/story you already are on the chance you miss something. Like, I remember when I was playing a Wild Arms series. I toured the whole dungeon (it wasn't really a dungeon in the sense of the word; just a general term for a play you need to explore for Plot Purposes) repeatedly because I needed to open the door that would continue the story and NOTHING WORKS. I was stuck and I was getting frustrated and I tried EVERYTHING. Later, when my brother came home and I complained to him, he told me he'd already finished said dungeon and the door I wanted to open so badly had already been opened. Can you understand my pain? _
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
24 Nov 08
I know how you feel, that's one of the reasons why I don't like to play a similar game that my other brothers are already playing. Knowing more than the other of what one has already gone over through the game. I don't know, I kind'a want to know more about the game that I am playing by myself than being told by someone who already played the game before. That's why some of the games I play aren't around what my brother's interests, which is often survival horror. They often like action/adventure. We also play RPGs but, still on separate game titles.
I use to go to arcades at malls when my classes at school are still some hours away from starting. See groups of guys around some latest fighting game and of course, some very good gamer is playing either against the computer or with another good gamer. It would often discourage me to challenge them in a game since they seem to have spent more time here than I could and challenging them would just be wasting money on buying tokens as well as insisting on futile hope of enjoying a game when more better gamers are present and just juggle you through out the whole game.
I use to do that when my sister plays but, some of the games that she plays are rather easy on my end, I do get frustrated when I see her fail a couple of times and I would just try it out myself and have her through the level in one go, of course, seeing her how she failed a couple of times before would make one think of ways to avoid those pit falls that she had made me witness through her attempts earlier.
@Zezloler (497)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Nov 08
I prefer playing alone, but I don't really mind playing with a few close friends, because we can joke about it. I don't like when a lot of people I don't know are watching me play, because if I make a mistake they're more likely to react to it in a, "Pffft, she doesn't know anything"-way. =P
For me, it also depends on the game. If I'm good at it, I'm more likely to be more comfortable in letting other people watch, of course, and if I'm bad at it, I'm more likely to refuse or be hesitant.
I like watching other people play more though because it's interesting to see what they do and how they think. xD If this is a game that I'm not particularly good at, I can learn from it and improve by watching. However, even if I don't know the gamer, I don't react in a rude or mean way, because it's this attitude that bothers me when I let other people watch me.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Thanks for giving different point of views and preferences when it comes to gaming, being watched as well as watcing.
Indeed, if its some game that we really know well on playing, we feel more confident and even show off while others are watching. I sometimes get to do that with friends of mine though, we often play fighthing games so showing off could either trouble them or impress them.. (^_^")
If its a game that I really don't know much, jokes too could come from close people I know who are watching. Like on the game that I mention in my initial post, a brother of mine is really more into the game and whenever I play it with him around, he'd even tell if its right to strike or I should just wait for a few moments more.. (^_^") kind'a like getting told that 'you don't know what your doing' and 'let me play'.. but, the points and suggestion still get me through the stages in the game..
Sometimes, I get more impressed when I watch other gamers play, mostly at arcades since they could often do things that I'd really have a hard time on trying. Sometimes, groups of guys would be around and they would be watching gamers playing that Tekken 6 fighting game.. sometimes they aren't really fighting but the competitors are actually friends with each other, trying to teach each other on moves and combos.. 'way to show-off at public' I'd think at the back of my mind.. of course, I agree that we learn while we watch too. 
@Denise_Tung (647)
• China
14 Nov 08
Hi ratyz. Actually we don't often play video games, especially those complicated on-lime games. When I am playing it at weekends, I like to play it in my room without being watch, heehee. If someone is watching me, I will feel stressfula and can't play my normal level, haha, attention distracted very easily, especially with those guy talking about how should I play it. But for those strategy games, it's ok and I like to play it with my a friend or two. Ppl's thinking mode is different and they can come out a good point. It's great to have fun together.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
What types of games would you prefer playing all by yourself then? I mean, I know some games only have single players, mostly on role playing games.. but, if its online, you'd be playing with other gamers as well, right?
I also agree on strategy, even those who are watching could share their tactical thinking while watching one play which kind'a makes it a group effort (^_^ )
Thanks for posting!
@ananth_kamma (675)
• India
13 Nov 08
for me it depends on the game actually. if the game is racing game or first person shooting game, then i don't like being watched. it take the concentration away from the screen and you will make some mistake. more over you will have feeling like some is watching you. but where as if you are playing a strategy game, you can relax a bit and you can have nice talk with too.
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
I guess it is indeed distracting, games that require your full attention, mostly on point of views that gets the gamer enthralled.
Some of those who watch gamers play, I often encounter at shops the let you play games for a fee, would commentate on how one plays and sometimes, it does get annoying (^_^") they sound like know-it-alls..
Thanks for sharing (^_^ )















