To whom will you go when you have a problem?
By Curlann
@annierose (21977)
United States
November 16, 2008 3:04pm CST
Do you find it easier to say your problem to your friends or do you find it easier to say it with your parents?
For me I find it easier to say it with friends rather than my parents. I say this so because I have the fear that if I will say the problem to my parents, they will got angry with me and scold me. It happens most of the time and I find my burden sometimes more heavy. But inspite of that, I know our parents want what is just the best for us. Maybe that is one of reason why they sometimes got angry so much when we commit a mistake.
Why I say it more often with friends is because I believe they will easily understand me because we have similar age. They scold me also sometimes but at same time they give advices that I can do afterwards.
3 responses
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
I am a confidante for almost all my friends. Whenever they need someone to listen to them, they would always come to me since they know I will listen but I will not tell. As for personal problems on my own, I do share it with them also but when I think I can handle it anymore, I would always go to an adoration chapel (a quiet room beside a church) or tot he church itself and ask God to give me strength to got through with my problems. For me, whenever I have a big problem, I would let out a good cry where no one will see then after crying I will compose my self and then start all over again with a clear mind set.
@Louprincesss112 (96)
• United States
16 Nov 08
I actually go to my grandmother with all of my problems. I find that i can tell her anything without her judging me or flat out telling me what to do. She listens gives me her input, and helps me work through the problem and come to a solution myself. I never feel like i have to worry about her throwing the problem or mistake up in my face at a later time.
