A Tragedy (Waiting to Happen)?
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
Singapore
November 20, 2008 10:18am CST
This is tragic news. A little girl aged three has died in a mishap at the playground near our neighbourhood. She fell backwards from the steps that linked to the slide and fractured her neck. I'm devastated by the tragedy.
I often bring my daughter to the same playground to play and mingle with the other children in the neighbourhood. We have seen the little girl with an adult, not sure whether he's the father or grandfather though. Sometimes I do see him let the little girl play on her own as he sat at the bench watching. I wasn't there to witness the actual incident, but it would be a sad thing if it happened because of negligence and lack of supervision on the adult's part.
My daughter is less than two and I always supervise her moves very closely. She's very active and runs around real fast, so sometimes I'm worried that she might bang into another child there. She also like to climb up and down the steps leading to the slide. I'm always there to make sure she does not slip and fall. She has slipped once or twice but I was there to catch her. We, parents, have to be extra vigilant when supervising our children at the playground. Don't you agree?
It's sad to see her a child go that way... so young and innocent. May God bless her soul...
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11 responses
@shooie (4984)
• United States
20 Nov 08
This is so sad. But you know kids will be kids. I watch my grandkids and they take off and am running after them. This was a freak thing that happened to this poor little girl and probably was accident. Think back when you were a child. Things were not made as safe as they are now and well we survived and you know we gave our parents a run for their money. Thinks the only thing we can do is just keep the kids home but then again the same thing can happen in your own backyard.Rug burns in the house or hitting their little heads on something ect.
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@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi shooie,
Anything can happen anywhere, even in the home. I cannot vouch for the safety of my home either. My daughter is always up to something, climbing and destroying, her favorite pasttime, and dancing of course! It is a freak accident. It's freaking me out since it is the same playground my daughter is playing every now and then. We can't keep kids indoors. They will go crazy. We will go crazier. Best thing is to watch them closely and scold them if they are trying to emulate some stunts from their peers. Thank your for responding!
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hmm... which playground is this?
It seems that the latest designs in playground is very nice in asthestics, but very poor in design in terms of safety.
Just the other day, at Fernvale, I saw the new playground there. The slide is just one long winding bar down with no sides.
The child have to literally slide down the slide with no barrier to bloster her turns as she goes down the slide.
It is so dangerous.
I will see if I can post a picture of what I mean.

@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi ah gong,
It is one of the HDB playground. The slide you mentioned sound dangerous. I don't think I will let my child go on it. But kids will be kids. Slides look fun to them. I'm always shouting for my daughter at the playground like a mad woman. I's also running here and there to make sure she does not trip and fall. It's hard work with an active daughter. I will continue to be vigilant. I also think that it does nat matter what type of playground it is, adults need to assess whether it is suitable for their children.
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@nishdan01 (3050)
• Singapore
25 Nov 08
It is so sad to hear such a tragic story. As a mother of an active 2 year old son, I know how difficult it is to manage a child. Always things worries when we see our son moving around very fast. Things were beyond my control when he was still younger. I had to take the help of others as he runs very fast. Sometimes he runs to road from playground. I had to be really watchful. Now he has grown a bit and so my load has decreased. I have another child also on the way. As this accident happened in Singapore, I am even more worried.
@patgalca (18481)
• Orangeville, Ontario
20 Nov 08
Don't know whether you caught this, but on America's Funniest Home Videos this past weekend, they played a video of a husband and wife arguing over their child's supervision on the playground. The mother was taping and insisted her husband watch their son closer. She zoomed in on a sign that read children under 5 should be well supervised. The husband was talking to his wife, to the camera, his back to the child who suddenly went head over tea kettle on the slide. (BTW the video won the $10,000 first prize that week!)
My kids are older now but I continue to have to remind them that "Mom is always right". And this woman sure told her husband that. I remember talking to a relative on the phone a long time ago and he was laughing because his little girl (the same age as my daughter who is now 15) was walking on the kitchen counter. I told him that was not a good idea and he asked why. I told him that if he allowed her to do that while he was there she was most likely to go and do it when no one was watching. Men! They think they are invincible themselves and they seem to think the same of their children for some reason.
It is too bad that it takes something like this to happen before people wake up, and even then it may not wake some up (men are stubborn). My prayers for that little girl's family.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi pat,
I guess not all men are like that though. My hubby often reminds me to watch my daughter who often climbs on the sofa and hang on the window grills. I told him that sometimes I put her in front of me when I'm the kitchen, but she runs off and do her thing. It's difficult to do any household chores that way. But after this incident, I'm super freaked out that I'd probably keep a closer watch on my daughter. She's my precious baby. I know some men are negligent when it comes to supervising their kids, but I do see less of that nowadays at the playground. That's a good thing right. I'm sure whoever was supervising the little girl will blame himself/herself forever. I would.

@dodo19 (48142)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
21 Nov 08
It's really devastating. I have two nieces, three and one. Every time I'm with them, I always make sure that someone, either myself, my fiance, his sister, their mom, is watching them very closely. And this is why. It's to prevent any type of accident to occur.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi dodo,
I do that too. But most of the time, if I feel that they are not doing an excellent job, I'd take over. I'm just so protective of my daughter. It is very sad news indeed. I'm still thinking about it a lot.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Hi sydney~That is an awfully sad story. It is a very tragic
accident. I'm sure whomever was watching her is devastated.
Sometimes you just can't be careful enough. A child that age
does move very quickly and must be watched over ever minute.
I'm sure she climbed those steps many times and nothing ever
happened. But, accidents unfortunately do happen and this
one was fatal. Since I don't know the events leading up to
the accident we can't be sure if this accident could have
been prevented if someone was standing close to her or not.
May God bless her and her family.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi Opal,
I can't say what actually happened at the playground during the incident. I just hope it is not due to any negligence on an adult's part. I know anything can happen in a split second.
There was once when I was teaching in a preschool, two boys were simply playing with each other. They are about 2 years old. The next moment, one of them was running straight for the wall, before I could even catch him. Luckily there was no injuries or anythign like that. Imagine that. Running straight for the wall. Kids this age can't judge distance very well too.
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
20 Nov 08
Hi SydneyHazelton, You're right, that is very tragic news. Anytime someone is killed it is tragic, but it is more so when the victim is a child. It is difficult for the parent to be watching all the time, but that seems to be what they have to do. It has to be very upsetting for the parent involved, I hope that others will learn from it. Blessings.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi pose,
I know it is difficult to watch over children all the time, but I guess that is what all parents will have to do. Sometimes I can't watch my daughter for a few minutes when I need to bring in the laundry or cook dinner. Now, I guess I will not leave anything to chance. I will have her within sight all the time. It's tough!
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
20 Nov 08
I agree that you have to be especially watchful when it comes to the little ones. My grandson is two and he is a daredevil...he doesn't understand the dangers of climbing and will climb on anything he can...just because it's there. My daughter has to watch him like a hawk...and I do, too, when he's in my yard or my home. I am so sad for that little girl and for her family.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
My daughter is like your grandson. She climbs even on the window grills. My mum often ask whether she's a boy or girl. It's very sad with the girl, to think that you often cross path around the neighbourhood and the next thing you know, she's gone. I can't get over it.
@NonaSaile (924)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
God has surely welcomed that innocent soul!
She fell on hard cement? I've always been very critical of playgrounds that have concrete grounds - kids will be kids, as they run and jump and climb, they trip, they stumble, they fall. And there's really nothing like constant vigilance on the part of the supervising adults!
Take care always, Sydney!
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi Nona,
It was not on hard cement. Most of our playground have rubber tiles. But she might have hit the steps before the ground. If it was straight to the ground, she might break a couple of bones at the most. It must have been a tumble. Very scary indeed. No matter how they try to make the playground as safe as can be, it is nothing like a watchful adult to be there for the child.
@red_amethyst (3518)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
hi!
this is really a sad news. a child at a young age must really need supervision. I also do the same with my son. I'm always at his side although he keeps on telling me that he can do it by himself. I'm just afraid something might happen.
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi red amethyst,
I know kids want to learn to do things on their own. That's how they learn anyway. My daughter often gets excited when she sees a flight of steps. She will want to climb up or down on her own. Although she can do both ways now, while holding onto the railings, I'd still be chasing after her when she suddenly dash for the steps. I'm not going to take any chances.
@daceyp (327)
•
20 Nov 08
what a sad thing to happen.i bet the person who was supose to be watching her at the time is full of guilt.it just goes to show that you really need to be with any child when they are in situations like this.no matter how well they normaly do it there is always the chance of them hurting themselves.
as they say when you have chlidren you need eyes in the back of your head and it is true.
my heart goes out to the family
@SydneyHazelton (4586)
• Singapore
21 Nov 08
Hi daceyp
I'd feel guity my entire life, if it was my child or anyone's for that matter. I remember I used to teach in a kindergarten and whenever it was playtime outside, I get anxious and keep counting the number of children I'm supposed to take care of. You are right about having eyes all around. IT's very important. Anything can happen in a split second. Thank you for your response!













