Leave him???
By silvercoin
@silvercoin (2101)
Lithuania
November 29, 2008 5:36am CST
I'm going to leave him because I'm fed up with his jealousy.We've been together for two years ,but now it's over.
I decided to take dance lessons two weeks ago because I wanted some relaxation.He refused to join me because he didn't like it.My dance teacher is a married man who has a loving wife and three children.This doesn't stop him from flirting with women, though.When everybody was out after second lesson, he put on a wonderful rumba melody."Let's try this one".He already knew that rumba was my favorite.We danced.Suddenly i realised he was trying to seduce me.I was confused and I left.I did like him as a person, a dancer, but it was too much.The next time he apologised for his behaviour and everything was ok.But:someone saw us together after lesson that day and reported it to my friend.Yesterday he said"No more dance lessons".I asked what was wrong.He said he was well informed about my secret affair.I told It wasn't truth and then he hit me on my face.That was enough.I don't wan't him to apologise.It makes no sense.I'm not his doll or thing, I don't belong to him.I never did.If he doesn't believe me, I can't be with him.What do you think?
1 response
@littleowl (7157)
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29 Nov 08
How often has your husband hit you, how often is he jealous of you, does he like to choose your friends, DOES he trust you? If the answer to the latter is 'no' then where there is no trust there is no relationship, it has happened to me but in an abusive relationship, I left...if mentally he is abusing you leave him if he thinks you are his property and he doesn't like you having your own independcy, leave him, and if he hits you LEAVE him...hugs and blessings littleowl


