That's not being brave. It's being stupid.

@alokn99 (5717)
India
January 25, 2009 3:09am CST
A colleague recently narrated an incident involving an accident he had while trying to change the fuse of an open wired high voltage junction box. He was standing on a tall stool and lost balance resulting in his fingers touching some portion of the open wiring . He got a bad shock which threw him off the stool and the resulting damage was a burnt finger. The fall seemed to have saved him as it could have been worse. Firstly, what got me irked on him was his decison to do something foolhardy like that, not being experienced an qualified in this. To add to it he was bragging about the incident as a matter of his being brave and courageous. I angrily retorted at him telling him that this was "Stupid and thoughtless action " and not brave. I learnt this the hard way in my youth as i thought i was brave enough to stand at a proximity of 1 foot from a ferocious dog, only to be bitten by it. How often do you come across such stupid acts and people thinking they have been extremely courageous about the whole thing ? Did you also learn the hard way ?
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@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Jan 09
What does he think of himself? A super hero or someone volt proof? I find people are so stupid at times and that does not exclude me. . The most common thing that people lack is common sense, this being another burning example. I still remember working on our antique ECTV with shutters when still a kid. I got shocks many times but that didn't deter me from my passion of engineering. And this kinda indomitable spree would occur only when no one is around. I didn't learn it the hard way for years after I found myself fidgeting with iron wire getting the shock of my life. I didn't learn still. Recently I had another shock from my new found hair straightener!! Now, that's a typical common man and see how I am bragging now!
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Shock from a hair straightner. ? Vertical straight hair standing ? Why would you require a hair straightner now ? These kind of shocks i have recieved plenty from. With my bro and dad being electronic junkies if i may call that, there would not be lace safe enough to walk around the house without getting my weekly dose of blood circulation. But then these bits of things we still do. It's the more dangerous one's that some only learn the hard way. And this so called volt hero i think i'm gone to nick name him now i think needs to get his thinking staright.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Bragging ! me about those shocks. I started walking around the house in my socks, till one day i stepped on the soldering iron. Yes some never get to learn. Footboard travel and one who i remember quite well about trying to get out in time from the front of a train. But the ones who do and don't learn and then consider themselves as macho or courageous. Now that gets me going.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Jan 09
Were you sleep walking Alok?
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
25 Jan 09
some call it cowardice but i did what came to mind that day..i was surrounded by some street dogs and i could see a open door of a house nearby.people say if you walk straight ,without showing sign of any fear,dogs donot attack but i ran to that house and closed it,later i came to know,they were a group of mad dogs.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Running to the house. That may have had the dogs chasing you instead and could have aggravated them more. We all do react differently in situation like these. But situations about those who boast about stupid actions are difficult to comprehend. Thanks
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
26 Jan 09
the dogs did chase me back to the house,but since it was a short distance,i took the risk otherwise,they would have made a mince meat of me.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
26 Jan 09
You were fortunate indeed. Thanks
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@lingli_78 (12821)
• Australia
25 Jan 09
oh yes... i encountered many people like that every now and then who think that they are doing a macho and courageous act while in fact they are being very stupid and risking their own lives... and i actually tell them in their face straight away that i didn't appreciate their stupid actions nor will i praise them... i myself try not to learn the hard way and be very cautious in every act that i do... take care and have a nice day...
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
26 Jan 09
Good to know that you directly voice your opinion to them. Thanks
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
25 Jan 09
Some people just don't think things through, pure and simple. And I too am guilty of the same in the past unfortunately. One particular incident for me also involved electricity. I was on a farming property and there was an electric cattle fence surrounding a field I was walking in. I approached the fence and of course wondered whether it was actually on or not, because going over it would be much quicker than going around it. And now the stupidity gene kicked in..... I picked up a piece of old fence post made from wood that had a nail in it. In my infinite wisdon at the time, I figured that if the fence WAS on, it would make a zapping noise when I touched the nail to the electric wire. I correctly assumed that the wood meant that I would not get electrocuted myself; but I didn't take into account that the wood would also absorb any chance of there being a zap sound or any reaction whatsoever! lol. Of course nothing happened when I touched the nail to the fence, so I assumed it was off. I then placed both hands on the wire so I could swing my legs over it and continue on my way..... Well, a split second later I had me a wonderful view of the sky because I was flat on my back in the field! The difference for me in this case though is that I don't see it as being courageous for one minute. It was nothing less than stupidity on my part! Others maybe talk things up to try to show bravado and divert attention away from the fact that they were indeed an unthinking idiot! lol.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
You are indeed lucky that nothing serious happened to you James. And although you did not in any way thin of it as bravado, there are a few who would brag about it. Thanks
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
2 Feb 09
Thanks for the BR Alok! I am happy to say that I am of course still here; and more importantly, I've been completely "electrocution free" since this discussion! lol.
@wrangel15 (1443)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
Based from your story, being courageous needs being careful also. Courage is nothing without other necessary factors like proper timing and proper situation. But still, being courageous is a big advantage because it takes almost any opportunity to do something and in most cases, it does help someone a lot. Opportunity is hard to find and courage is one thing that finds it. But for sure, a courageous person learns as he grows to use his courage at the right time and at the right place.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
27 Jan 09
Courage to help someone is a welcome thing. But at the same time as you say the timing and the need is also to be ascertained. Why do something which you know you have no expertise and in the end does not get anyone any benefit and cause you only harm. Thanks
@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
some people learn by the book while some by experience. i think the big difference between the two is that learning by experience has a better chance of committing mistakes which is a good topic to share for awareness but a bad thing to brag about.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
26 Jan 09
Very true. Sharing our experiences for the purpose of awareness and asking others to be careful is the what we need to do instead of bragging about it.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
27 Jan 09
Sorry to hear about your friends' plightg. You are right his act cannot be termed as brave per se, it could be called mis-adventure and when we are not sure about something, we should not venture into that. Life is very precious and it would be better not to take these kind of risks. In this case, he would have called an 'electrician' for the job. It was perhaps better to pay Rs.20-30/- to a qualified electrician, than to put yourself at stake. I avoid such kind of adventrues and always go for outside help/assistance, when I am not sure about such jobs. I do not mind spending money, afterall if we all start doing these kind of jobs ourselves, who will call electricians etc., they will die of hunger.........LOL! Good Post!
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
27 Jan 09
Exactly my point of view. Why misadventure into something,hurt yourself and brag about it. In any case we had he had to pay the electrician for his time as he had turned up there. Thanks
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
28 Jan 09
We both are thinking on the same lines and I believe, we are right.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
27 Jan 09
pl. read plight.........
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
25 Jan 09
I feel that if you are taking a serious risk for which you are not trained specially, it is just foolishness. You have mentioned that the perosn was not qualified and still he tried to change the fuse of an open wired junction box. One should be trained to do this type of jobs and if one does not have enough knowledge of doing it in right manner, it should be avoided. As you have mentioned about that dog's incident, I remember running on the edge of a deep well which was near our school, running on the slanting roof top of my own house in my young age. I too felt that I was doing a brave thing. But now as a matured person I realize that it was "stupid" thing only. God has given us brain to think if the action which we are going to take is rational, safe and more importantly suitable for us or not. But if we do not use it and just for craze of doing something called "brave work", then it is "stupidity" only.
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Yes the training for high risk activities is a must. The roof example that you have give is also very pertinent. Thanks. Appreciate it.
@Ldyjarhead (10233)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Being brave is doing something that you know is likely to cause you harm, and you do it anyway because it needs to be done. Most people wouldn't think changing a fuse would fall into that category, but maybe he had done it before and hurt himself and didn't learn from that, so therefore he was brave in making another attempt, LOL. Why was there open wiring in a high voltage junction box anyway?
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
The open wring was there as the electrician had opened it up the previous day. But this guy could not wait for him to come. And to add to it the electrician supposedly was waiting for him in another room. Thanks
@ejohn82 (155)
• India
25 Jan 09
Atleast your friend escaped with just a burnt finger. Actually he was pure lucky that nothing serious happened to him or he wouldn't have been alive to tell you the tale. It is stupidity on his part to handle electrical equipments when he didn't have much knowledge. I have come across people who do that. Just take our trains in Mumbai for example. We will always find people travelling on the top of the train. They think its cool.I don't think there is anything cool about it. It is very dangerous to travel like that. Just recently there was this news in the paper, around 200 people(in some interior location, forgot which place) travelling on the top of a train fell from the train as they hit a tree branch. Thankfully nobody was seriously injured.Hopefully they will think twice before trying that stunt again.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Travelling on top of a crowded train, hanging with one hand on the footboard of a bus, there are many such foolish yet considered brave by some. Some only learn the hard way. Hopefully the guys who fell off the top of the train have learnt thier lesson. Thanks
@CRIVAS (1815)
• Canada
25 Jan 09
I think that there are a lot of people like your friend, out in the world today. They are people that seem to think that they have to prove something, I personally agree with you. I think that it is stupid and dangerous to try to fix something that you don't have the experience to do. I personally would have called someone in to do it for me. Thankfully you don't seem inclinded to do the same and my advice to you is to steer clear when your friend tries something like this again. He is very lucky that he did not get seiously hurt. I just have to shake my head at some people,LOL.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Yes luckily he did not get seriously hurt. I can't just shake my head in this case as he works with me. I just try to get some sense inot his thick head. Thanks
@djemba (767)
• India
25 Jan 09
Yes, they generally think that it is very brave of them to end up doing such acts. it is very lethal to fiddle with electricity poles, the newspaper is splashed with reports about youngsters doing such vain acts to impress their friends, girls and portray a macho image.
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@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jan 09
Yes, there is so much of happening around. Some learn the hard way and some do not. Thanks