What is up with guys on the internet?!?
By MissAmie
@MissAmie (717)
United States
January 26, 2009 4:16am CST
I chat online and have for quite a few years...like before broadband was even a thought. ha ha. And I've noticed that all guys have the same basic M.O. They talk to you all nice and polite for a few days then they start off innocently enough asking personal questions then they pop the big question. Would you do me? ACK! I just want to barf. No, I do not want to go to bed with you. I was up for being buddies or whatever but not all this. Then they act like you're something special. Almost 100% of the time it's "I feel like we have a connection." To which I respond something like, "the only connection we have is through a LAN." I just don't understand what ever happened to "I'm not on here to met people."
I'm not that much of a charmer. ha ha. It just annoys me that when I think I'm talking to a halfway decent person *poof* they turn into a donkey. Sigh...
What has been your experince with online friends or dating?
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4 responses
@Citizen_Stuart (2016)
•
26 Jan 09
You've got nothing to fear from me, because there's the Atlantic Ocean between us and I can't afford a plane ticket.
Seriously, I've never got into the "online romance" thing because on a forum like this, you only know what people tell you about themselves. You might respect someone's intellect, writing skills, philosophical outlook etc, but where's the "chemistry" supposed to come from? I certainly can't get my head round anyone who'd prowl a forum like this, looking for "action".
Seriously, I've never got into the "online romance" thing because on a forum like this, you only know what people tell you about themselves. You might respect someone's intellect, writing skills, philosophical outlook etc, but where's the "chemistry" supposed to come from? I certainly can't get my head round anyone who'd prowl a forum like this, looking for "action".3 people like this
@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
4 Feb 09
Well I'm not on here for dating at all as I am married. I am chatting with friends about topics that interest me. If I make a few dollars while doing it, fine.
But my experience with men here so far.............
I haven't yet been propositioned, whew, thank goodness. And many of the males I've met here on the lot have been pretty decent people.
But people in general....some, and I say some only, have been pretty nasty. People take what you say sometimes and twist it into something you actually did not say. Something nasty for some reason. Or they thing they are reading between the lines to find a deeper meaning, when in fact what they are atually doing is ASSUMING things just not in evidence. That really annoys me!
I said what I said and I meant it. Period. I'm a very straightforward person. I have nothing to hide, no alterior motives, and I resent being told that I do.
I feel for ya, I really do. I hope I never have to do the online dating thing. Guys can just be jerks alot of the time, ya know. Ultimately, the ones out there that are "looking for someone" are really only looking for one thing.
@MissAmie (717)
• United States
5 Feb 09
No, it didn't happen on here, thank heavens! It was on yahoo messenger. That's the thing...I'm married too but that doesn't deter them one bit! It's just so annoying I can't stand it. Now I just log in invisible and talk to my frinds. I have enough I guess....no need for more.
@AnnieOakley1 (5596)
• Canada
5 Feb 09
Gawd! You weren't even dating, single? And they are still doing this stuff? I don't blame ya for being invisible. What a royal pain in the a$$.
Well, you will like mylot then. I haven't had anybody do that here. We all just socialize, chat a goof around. All in good fun. Kidding, ya know. At least in the cirlces I hang around with.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
23 Mar 09
I think some guys comes online in chatting for romance while some guys come online for making friends. I think most probably some of them act friendly and descent so that they don't scare you away. I think it is nice to have broadband connection because it is very good in speed. Longtime ago, my friend brought computer and had dialup connection. We used to login to yahoo messenger and we were thinking chatting was something very amazing thing and we were very happy on chatting that days.
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
4 Feb 09
[i]Hi Amie,
In the past, I used to meet that type of people and it will always end up me insulting them! Maybe they are just looking for fun and I know there are also a lot of women who will also entertain them in that way![/i]




