Symptoms of Relapse

then we noticed her choice in friends left much to be desired. Well the thing is, you (anyone really, addict or not but more so an addict) stick to what you know....she is probably more comfortable around her "own kind" so to speak..so just becuase its her comfort zone she'll gravitate to shady characters....Its such a messed up mindset when you are trying to get clean BUT its also human nature..think about a time when you personally were in a new situation and had to meet new ppl...Chances are very high that you naturally gravitated to like minded ppl, the types of ppl you were comfortable with BEFORE beign in that situation...Make sense? (bear with me, I'm running on high stress and minimal sleep)..Thats what she is doing and really until she becomes comfortable in her own TRUE skin thats goin to be a very hard habit to break....Add to that the fact that this new partner of hers is a slacker and a bad influence...well...obviously thats not a good scene at all... All the best to you and strength to her ya know...right now you just might be forced to play the waiting game which is so hard..I put my husband through that and I'm goin through it with my bf...if there is any way I can help even if its just an "ear" please dont hesitate ya know...