Daisy May's History

United States
January 29, 2009 11:55pm CST
I took Daisy May and Petie to the vet last Friday they both needed shots. The vet I took take care of Daisy May since she was a puppy and at 4.5 months old she broke a leg. I knew she had broken her leg and I know I am having a lot of problems with her being to aggressive. This is Daisy May's History: Her birthday is April 22, 2008 so she is almost a year old. She was named Diva when I got her and she had painted toe nails and was a terror when I got her no manors and would attack anyone or anything. I could tell Diva would not do for the name I felt that the name led to some of her bad behavior, she also did not want to be on the floor she wanted to be on my lap at all times. She would not want to go outside, she wanted to be inside and sleep on the furniture at all times. Well Diva got a rude awaking with me she got a name change to Daisy May and I will not be painting her toe nails. She had a collar with a bell on it which was pretty but it broke on one of our walks so now she has a halter. I also keep telling her she is a doggy and she can be on the floor. Yes she gets on the furniture which is fine but she has to walk and she has a basket to sleep in and a kennel at night not in my bed. She did get mad and poop on my bed a few times. Now that has stopped. She is very, very aggressive and the vet had problems with her at 4.5 months old just trying to take care of her to put the cast on her leg. When I was asking the vet questions to help me train her he said he tried to warn the old owners of Daisy May’s behavior being a problem and they needed professional help to train her. He said they where nice people but way over their heads with Daisy that she is hyper aggressive and part of it is the breed and part of it is she has been let to have her way, she has taught both of her old owners that she was alpha dog and got away with it. Now she comes to live with me and I am doing my best with her. I walk her almost everyday. That helps a lot, I also had to get a training collar that beeps and shocks when she dose not behave. She has learned that I am alpha dog. She still has some temper problems. She growls at me when I open her kennel in the morning, or touch her basket she sleeps in in my office. Which the vet said he would not put up with that behavior because she will start to take possession of other things if I allow her to think she owns her basket and kennel. So now I have beeped her when she growls at me when I touch the kennel or basket. So far she is doing really well with the basket but the kennel is another story. Now this leads me to tell you what happened the other day. I had a pizza delivered for dinner and when the guy came to the door I tried to get Petie and Daisy May away from the door so I could answer it. When I told Daisy May to get back she would not move so I scooted her with my foot. Mind you I did not kick her nor did I hurt her in any way. Well she came unglued and attacked my ankles and started biting me. I stood my ground and shocked her with her collar and told her to get back. She came at me a second time so I had to shock her a second time. The shock collar is on the setting of 3 out of 10, 10 being the highest and it is for a little dog, so at 10 it will not kill her. She finally went into the submissive mode and paid attention to what I was saying after the second shock. This is the first time I have wondered if I am cut out to train her. Have anyone of you had to deal with such an aggressive dog? Does anyone have any tips for me? As I am getting ready to post this discussion Abagail walked up and smelled Daisy's basket and Daisy went after Abagail I had to beep her to get her to stop. Help me I think I will be hiring professional help soon
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5 responses
@reinydawn (11642)
• United States
31 Jan 09
I think there is a lot of truth to "You can't teach an old dog new tricks". Although Daisy May is not "old" she had already developed bad habits and you are in the process of correcting those habits. It's kinda like kids, you have to be consistent and stand your ground. It sounds to me like you are doing everything right, it's just that Daisy is going to test her limits all the time. I'm also sure she has a great side of her that really attracts you to her, otherwise you wouldn't go through all this trouble. Make sure you are rewarding her for her good behaviour as well as the shockings for the bad behaviour. I've never really had aggressive dogs, or little ones... I'm a big dog person. I had to laugh when you described what happened with the pizza delivery. We have to let Sable out the door onto the stoop for 2 seconds then she turns around and comes back in and lets us get our pizza. We always tell the person she has to come out and say hi, even though she's barking like she's going to tear their legs off!
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@reinydawn (11642)
• United States
1 Feb 09
AAAAAWWWW!!! That is so sweet!!! See, you are doing a great job with her!!!
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• United States
1 Feb 09
I know I guess I was just got discouraged when she went after me at the door. I know make her and Petie stay a certain distance away from the door before I open to let anyone in and I will not let the dogs greet my friends until they are completely in the door.
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• United States
1 Feb 09
Daisy is such a love bug she makes your heart melt. I had company today and one of the ladies who was here today said she would take her while I go out of town when my son and his girlfriend has his baby. I just do not trust Daisy to mind and not get aggressive with the lady. I trust the lady to take care of Petie because he is calm and lovable. I also do not think Daisy is in any shape emotionally to go on any sleep overs just quite yet. It may be a few years before she is secure enough to do that. She has problems with separation anxiety when I leave. She does love it when I get home.She will not leave my lap nor my shoulder. She is on my shoulder like a baby rubbing her head on my neck and face. I will not let her lick me so she rubs her head against my face and neck. How how can you not love something like that.
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
31 Jan 09
Hey tea! No wonder poor Daisy is so confused! Who does that to their dog? They named her Diva, polished her nails and treated her like a Queen and then got rid of her? What kind of thing is that to do to a poor little dog? No wonder she is so confused! It really isn't her fault. She was moved around and now she is with you and she does love you and her new home, but she is still probably afraid that she will be thrown out again and that makes her feel insecure so that may be the reason for some of her behavior problems. She may be agressive because she is afraid and is protecting her territory because of the things that happened to her in the other homes she lived in. I don't think that it is all her fault. She does have to re-learn how to behave though. I think she will in time. It just will take more patience with her. I do think that she is trying. She is a bit better than she was when you got her. I hope she will start listening soon!
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• United States
1 Feb 09
I agree with you I am glad she was so young when I got her she is not set in her ways yet. I am going to take her to my son's home when I go up to their home when they have their baby this month. I will not leave her with anyone as of yet. She is to insecure, I am afraid just leaving her at the vets over night to have her spayed will send her over the edge for a while. Her appointment is this week to get spayed I hope she will be OK without me for one night. I will take her bed in with her so she can have something from home with her. I may get a ride in so I can see her after surgery. I do not know if that will be good or seeing her and leaving her there would be worse for her.
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• United States
1 Feb 09
She was so traumatized when I got her and has come such a long way I hate to bring her one step forward and two steps backwards. I will be taking her basket with her and her favorite sweater so she will be warm.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Don't worry about her tea! She will be very sleepy from the anesthesia so she won't realize what's going on. And when she wakes up her mom will be there! I don't think she will know if you visit her and are they going to let you visit? She will just sleep probably right through the night. She will be fine and forget the whole thing. As long as you are there for her in the morning to pick her up she will be fine.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Jan 09
I have a Problem with Gissi when I try to look at his sore on his Skin, he does not like being blown at but in Gissi's case it is reminder of what ever was done to him in the past Give Daisy another Month on the training and then if she is still not behaving get a Professional in as in her case it sounds like she wants to be in charge and doing her best to keep that position She is being stubborn but she should give in at some stage but if she does not a professional is needed Hugs Sweet
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
30 Jan 09
I forgot to say I know Gissi's past is abuse and beatings but it took me a year to get the little Man to what he is now
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• United States
1 Feb 09
She has not come after me since the pizza man incident. I have been making her and Petie stay behind a certain area before I open the door now. That is new and it will take a while for them to learn. Today she was naughty because she would not listen to me but she kept getting excited. Once I got her attention with the beep she would do what I asked of her.
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@aseretdd (13729)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I think you are doing a great job with Daisy... and i remember when you first got her... she was really that Diva type of dog... but now... she has come a long way... and just needs to shake of some of that remaining diva attitude... you are such a good dog owner... since you treat them like your own... and i can feel that you really care and love her very much... So i think... she just needs time to adjust more... like you said... she grew up thinking that she owns the world... even us humans will not be able to shake that off in just a few months...
• United States
2 Feb 09
I do need to get her time. I guess I just have to have faith in myself and in her she is just a puppy still.
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
30 Jan 09
While I have not had a dog in years, I just have two kittys and a bird. I commend you for trying to train this dog. Sounds to me like you are doing a really good job. I'm sure you will get the dog to learn, and it will probably take a little time, but I imagine in the long run she will come around to your likeng.
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• United States
30 Jan 09
She has come such a long way since I have gotten her. She would try to bite anyone that came into the house. She was chasing the cats and steeling foods out of my hand and nipping my hand if I would not pay attention to her. Yes she has come a long way and the vet was amazed how far she has come. After he worked on her in the back, he needed to do a skin scraping on her he came back and said "you have done a really good job with Daisy May, she has come such a long way. Keep up the good work!" I just hope I can keep up the work.
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