love problem

India
March 1, 2009 10:07pm CST
HI guys ,this is my first discussion in mylot which is about my problem that i facing right now.Its goes like this, there is a girl in my college with whom i started having coversations on phone for past 6-7 months.But somehow i have feelings for her and i told her about this.And her reply to this was negative and asked me to remain friends only.But iam not totally ok about this "being friends only" .please help in this .What should i do?
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4 responses
avani26
@avani26 (1518)
• India
26 Feb 10
Do not lose heart if the girl says he wants to remain friends inspite of you telling her your feelings about her means she does really like you and not everyone falls in love at first sight. Love cannot be forced it has to happen. You need to have patience dear and be friends and try to become a good friend coz he may really start loving you once she comes to know you and interacts often. By the way may your first post really help you sort out the issue.
manoj1502
@manoj1502 (854)
• India
27 Feb 10
I agree with you everything wont happen as we wish all you have to do wait for sometime . Forget about your love in front of her and be a good friend became close to her still more when you start to behave in a friendly manner understand her feelings than what so ever problem may come she starts to love you buddy. But all you have to do his patience don't lose heart if she refuses. You can always love her buddy.
zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 10
Welcome to mylot yaadein. You must remember man and woman love differently. You might be a fast worker and demand instant result. Hold on..a woman will never say love for the man far too soon. Her respond to you is a strong indication that she has the feeling of love for you but needs time to nurture the relationship and get to know you deeply before confessing her love for you. Don't worry....that is the nature of women. It is up to you now how to stir her heart to reach the next stage of your romantic liaison with her. Good luck.
laydee
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
26 Feb 10
Well, you cannot force anyone to like you, regardless how much you like them. That's just the way life is. I'm assuming she just didn't see you as someone for her. Deal with it.
lovelyn_medrano
@lovelyn_medrano (3070)
• Philippines
23 Feb 10
If the girl wants to be friend only for now, then respect her and give her time. As long as the girl continue to entertain you, somehow she likes you too... Maybe she is not yet ready yet or just wanted to take it easy to be sure with her feelings too. Remember yaadein1987, what she tells you is to "remain friends", she did not directly says to you that you aren't her type at all...