Do you have the disease to please?

@paula27661 (15811)
Australia
March 3, 2009 1:23am CST
There is one person in my life that I cannot say no to. I consider myself relatively assertive but this one friend can usually manipulate me into doing almost anything. I don't know why but I find it really difficult to say no to her. Do you have a manipulator in your life? How easy is for you to say no?
3 responses
mipen2006
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
My wife fits this to a Tee. LOL!
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
Is she the manipulator and you can't say no to her, or the other way around?
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mipen2006
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
I wouldn't use maninuplator, it's just that she takes such good care of me, I find myself giving in to her more often than not. Did I mention she's a fantastic and original cook!
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
That's lovely, it sounds like you love her a lot and she knows it!
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MaryLynn321
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
4 Mar 09
I had a friend that was like that, it was a good relationship, but ended up being a toxic one. I eventually ended the relationship. And I do not regret it at all.
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Mar 09
I've had some like that. You get to a point when enough is enough.
MaryLynn321
@MaryLynn321 (2680)
• United States
6 Mar 09
right, and you turn around and run like heck the other way, and never look back.
silverglint
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
3 Mar 09
If you have a friend that you can't say no to, I am married to one hehehe no matter what i do, however hard i refuse or firm I am, I only find myself doing exactly what he wants hehe. Maybe its just because I love him very much or he is really good at convincing people so that he can have his way
paula27661
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
3 Mar 09
Some people have that power! Being your husband I think it's because you're in loooove! You're lucky!