Does Age Difference Affecting Love?

Indonesia
March 12, 2009 12:35am CST
Hello everyone Does age difference affecting your love?well i'm thinking, i'm not speaking ill of man sides, but a women personality is much more mature than man , that's why most of woman likes older man than her ages for their own reason ... there is also another things happen, that can make younger man loves older woman or the opposite way, but this difference ages, does affecting people love? Do you have any experience of it? Can you share with us? Have a nice day mylotter ...
5 responses
• Philippines
12 Mar 09
For me,it's so crazy to think if we believe that age affects the relationship between 2 people who started friendship that leads them to fall for each other. No matter how you live your life, your life's status and standards, your height or weight, or how old a a guy or a woman is... it shouldnt be a basis to consider who to choose for you to love . But as i have known from the other people , these factors that i have mentioned earlier affects some of the relationship because the concerned people doesnt really care and understand the real meaning of love before they enter into a certain relationship... that's why there are so many broken relationships and many people ended up devastated especially if the reason of breaking up isn't worth it. Though, many said that it's not easy to trust and stay loyal to your partner because temptation and other factors are always there ready to make trouble in the middle of the smooth relationship that you are in. But believe me, even if many say that age matters a lot , for me it isnt. Even if the person is double or even triple than your age.... but if that person is very loving, cares you a lot in a very honest way, loves you to the fullest that makes you think that for him you are the world and he wouldnt exist anymore if you aren't there with him...and most of all cherish and appreciate everything that you do however small it is....with this man /woman qualities nobody gonna think that age still matters...
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• Indonesia
12 Mar 09
usually at the first time people don't think it's a matter, but when time goes by, there's small problems about it which can be a big problem in future ... usually it is strongly caused by people's ego which is older ... but i hope it never happen and it doesn't matter do you have your own experience like this?
• Pakistan
12 Mar 09
no i don't agree with that.... it doesn't matter what age u are... if u are in love u r just in love nothing else...
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• Indonesia
12 Mar 09
so it doesn't bother you if the older one deeming you as a younger person that don't have any experience when facing a problems? sometimes it does bother i think, even it's only a little ...
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
12 Mar 09
It does. Sometimes, the person's age would determine his character, hobbies and interests. These are key factors to get to know your partner and have a smooth sailing relationship. Though some can be worked out through dialogues, it's best if they don't have a big age gap.
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• Indonesia
12 Mar 09
and what do you think about the acceptable difference age is normally for you? can you explained about character, hobbies and interests you mean from the gap, the examples?
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
12 Mar 09
Hi, For 2 reasons basically-Security & Longer marital pleasure. But the opposite way are not unusual,as in case of Sachin Tendulkar,Bapu etc. =Lahiri,Kolkata,india.
• Indonesia
13 Mar 09
I'm not aware about it since i'm not coming from India ... and what marital pleasure you mean? what is the relation things about that? sorry i don't really understand about your response
@subha12 (18452)
• India
12 Mar 09
It depends on individuals. in many cases it does not affect. But when the love is not that much deep, I guess it affects. too much age gap affects sometimes.
• Indonesia
12 Mar 09
yep it does depends on individuals, and how about you if you are in the shoe,and facing this matter? did you feel it is affecting?