Self diagnosis - would you pursue it?

@dawnald (85137)
Shingle Springs, California
March 31, 2009 6:37pm CST
So I've been reading a lot on the subject of Autism and Asperger's Syndrome, books that have been recommended to me, fiction and non-fiction. What prompted this is that my son has autism. Anyway when I read "Look Me in the Eye: My Life With Aspergers" it struck a chord. Some of the traits that he talks about describe me pretty well (others don't lol). So when I got back from vacation I did a little online research and took a few online tests. Here is one result: Your Aspie score: 129 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 82 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie Aha, just as I suspected. I seem to have some of the traits all right. So if it were you, would you pursue it further (formal diagnosis)?
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
10 Apr 09
I'd only pursue further professional diagnosis if I felt that my life was being impeded in some way by the traints I'd 'self-diagnosed'. Otherwise why look for something else to worry about? I know...........I live in denial! LOL
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
10 Apr 09
Then by all means get a pro diagnosis. If nothing else it will set your mind at rest.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Apr 09
I kinda sorta have one, she just didn't do a full out diagnostic test...
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Apr 09
I live in denial too, that's part of the problem. lol It is (almost certainly) Asperger's and it is impacting my life...
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@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
1 Apr 09
If you have managed and functioned well over the years why would you want to take a test? If of course, you had suspected something like this = then you may want to learn whether you really have the trait or not. This is a personal decision. I took an I.Q. test inline last year and to my surprise I leanrt that muy IQ is really very high. Much higher than I had thought. so this piece of knowledge (whether it is true or not) comforts me when my Boss called me an idiot! LOl. OSeriously, only you can make the choice. Blessings
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Apr 09
Well the issue here, I guess, is that although I have managed and functioned failry well, something has always seemed a bit "off" and I'm really trying to find out why. And also find better coping mechanisms, so to speak.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Apr 09
That was my thinking. Even if Alice is on the right track and I'm just hearing what I've already concluded, I'd like to know one way or the other!
@cynthiann (18612)
• Jamaica
1 Apr 09
Then if this was the case then I would do further investigation to satisy my own curiosity. Good luck my friend
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
2 Apr 09
when was a medicial student,we had tostudy of various disorders and i use see some of the symptoms matching with mine.i used to think i had every particular disease i was reding then..
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Apr 09
Yes that occurred to me too. And there is another possible explanation for some of the characteristics that I'm aware of. But I think it might be worth checking into.
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
10 Apr 09
My older son is lightly touched with Asperger's Syndrome. He has some of the traits but most people hardly notice. He is a delightful teenager and I couldn't hope for more. I think that some on line tests can be more reliable than others. I think there would be no harm in you seeking a formal diagnosis. Good luck.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Apr 09
I don't think I'm going to go for a full out diagnostic but in counseling last week, the counselor gave me a mini diagnostic test and it's definitely leaning in that direction...
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
10 Apr 09
Mmmm...my great-grandmother was a nurse and she said the worse thing to do, was to read any kind of medical journal that listed symptoms as one would think they had a bit of everything. Her son, (my mother's uncle Eddie) was a hypochondriac and did indeed read books on symptoms of diseases and swore he had everything, consequently he would go to his doctor more than the normal person did. I guess his doctors were so fed up that they didn't take any of his symptoms seriously after awhile, sort of the boy cry wolf syndrome. With all his doctor visits and everything they did fail and miss catching his disease earlier than they could have....he was diagnosed with lung cancer. As with what you're saying here though, like I said, after awhile reading up on "traits" or symptoms of something could be almost anything and one could see various aspects that might make one swear they have some problem when they don't. Of course the only time that one should pursue something is if one still doesn't feel "quite right" especially after going to a doctor. I remember hearing about Oprah Winfrey. She was having some kind of medical problem and was initially diagnosed with only high blood pressure, so was given medications. She still didn't feel right and got sicker. She went to another doctor..same thing..just high blood pressure. It wasn't until she went to a FIFTH doctor that her health problem was properly diagnosed. She had a low thyroid problem..
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
10 Apr 09
It's a delicate balance. It's best to take charge of your own medical care because doctors are not always right. On the other hand, people tend to hear what they want to, and that can lead you in the wrong direction. In this case, though, we discussed it in marriage counseling, she gave me a "mini diagnostic test" and it almost certainly IS Asperger's.
@alharra (507)
• United States
2 Apr 09
Dawn- don't forget that many of the symptoms for Asperger's are also symptoms of ADD or ADHD. I think that that fact alone is one of the reasons that my son was not diagnosed with Asperger's until he was 9. And from what I have been told there really is no 'treatment' for Asperger's except social skills. If you have gotten along this long with no treatment why do it now?
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Apr 09
Not so much treatment as learning some coping mechanisms, I think...
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
1 Apr 09
Hi dawn, I am interested too but when it is something I cannot afford this time, I will not prioritize it! LOL!
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Apr 09
I think it's worth checking into.
• United States
1 Apr 09
if i had enough symptoms to cause a nagging doubt,i would definetly check into it. it'd be worth it if only for the peace of mind.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Apr 09
I think it's worth looking into. It could explain some things...
@savypat (20216)
• United States
1 Apr 09
I guess you have to ask your self what the benefit would be in knowing, will it change your life in any way. Ask yourself these questions and the answer should be evident to you.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
1 Apr 09
Knowing one way or the other could change my life in a positive way, I think.