for your daughter

i would tell my daughter to listen to her heart in love. it's something cliche to say, but i would. that's what i do, often not by choice lol. i'm just an emotional person usually, and heart beats brain in those situations. besides, you should end up with a person based off mostly what your heart is telling you(having the connection there, etc.), not what your brain may say ("oo, this man is rich", etc. lol), though using a combination of the two is often best. also, of course remind her about protection if she does decide to become sexually active, or continues to be if she already is...it may be something you don't really want to talk about with her, but there are things you can answer she may not know the answer to. safe is better than sorry!