Does your education affects your marriage life?
By mhethess
@mhethess (379)
Philippines
May 6, 2009 9:50pm CST
Many people now a days don't set their priorities in choosing a partner in life that's why they encounter problems. They just rely on what they feel. You have to consider everything. and if you are now in the situation that your education becomes a big deal in your relationship what will you do? What if your husband was not able to finish his studies and you are earning higher than him? or hat if he can't get a better job? What will you do?
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@noquite0325 (473)
• China
7 May 09
of course it have some effects,i mean,i need to think of the guy`s education degree cos of my family`s decision.my parents always told me sth about how important it is,but i`m not very care about it,just glance at it.
as i`m the only single children in our family,all my elders have a strict request about everything to me.so just like marriage,the very important issue in a girl`s life,they absolutely pay much attention.
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@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Yes and no, Yes, if Education plays the top priorities in one's life and if you think that having such degree can help you with your finances. No, if you love your boyfriend and you are res assure that you can be happy with him no matter what circumstances in life. My advice is you have to follow your heart as well as follow your parents advice. But don't forget the most important thing in Life is to put God first in any situation you are in, especially in choosing a husband? Do you set your qualification on finding a husband?
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@noquite0325 (473)
• China
8 May 09
of course i have some,but it seems that`s only the basic qualifications,just like responsibility, honesty,kindly,optimistic,etc.
but the point is love,i think it must be the most important part to get to marriage.
@noquite0325 (473)
• China
8 May 09
of course i have some,but it seems that`s only the basic qualifications,just like responsibility, honesty,kindly,optimistic,etc.
but the point is love,i think it must be the most important part to get to marriage.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
7 May 09
there should be no problem with that as long as the husband helps in other ways like doing the chores, taking care of the children and no vices. if the wife earned higher then it's a best news. she can offer business to her husband.give him a revolving fund and have a serious engagement and commitment with him that he should use the money wisely and manage it properly. if the business grows then everybody is happy.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
7 May 09
that's my point. one should not nag his husband who is jobless.there are tons of jobs out there. one needs not to be under an employer, he could be his own boss.
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
7 May 09
Yes Thank you but you need to have that good relationship and truly you have to put God as the center of your family. A matter of helping and building each other? Because you and your husband are one and you cannot let others judge him, if there is a possibility and if he is still younger you can encourage him to go to school and finish his course and if not a wife can build his husband by giving him money to start business. Respect for each other is one of the important factor.
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@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
8 May 09
I think in a relationship there should be a give and take and in the process of giving and taking each should not measure each others share in the family. Love should persist in the relationship most of all. Education is an important factor but it should not be a measure of success because one can be successful in life even without it. There are many things you can acquire knowledge and skills to make you fully enjoy it.
If a couple truly loves each other educational background is not a factor they should consider. How they can live is all up to them. Money can be earned in many ways possible out there one wold just have to look at life positively.
@sunflower121 (238)
• China
7 May 09
As far as I am concerned,I think that education plays a very important role in the marriage life.I think a person's character has a close relationship with his or her education.Couples with similar education tend to share more things in common,right?Have a nice day!
