Are you a person who always glad to help others?
May 10, 2009 2:25pm CST
Are you that type of person who always be pleasant to help others. You won't mind to do your best to help other people who really need helps. In return, you ask nothing. But when you needed help from others, people always make up some lame excuses to reject you. Have you ever experienced that? I had experienced similar scenario many times. And I am so disapointed with these kind of people I knew.
• United States
8 Jul 09
I was like this when I was younger and you have so many expectations of how people are and should be, heck, I thought my father was Superman I never thought he could do no wrong and it took me alot of heartache to accept him and realize his faults are normal and now that I can go to people without expecting there one way or another its made MY life easier, because if I didn't the disappointment never fails. I don't think necessarily people mean to be this way--maybe they do but I think it comes mostly out of fear and fear of giving themselves to others, can't quite understand it sometimes it seems carnal but I think you are doing just fine being that person others can rely on and maybe in return your teaching them the important of giving our own selves to others--everyone doesn't progress as steadily as others but you can still be there for them. But never do it at the expense of your own well being, i find that just being an ear to listen proves more valuable to friends, even strangers, most times.
8 Jul 09
hi dude :) nice to meet you :) i think m the person who feels glad to help others.....every person must have helping tendency....i wont expect the similer help from that person in future.... no dude!! i neva had that kinda experience....maybe if i had also....i will forgot that day itself...i wont feel that much for that.....
• Hong Kong
23 May 09
Yes, I think I am glad to help others. And before, I do hope others would appreciate my helps, some do and some don't, after so many experience of being hurt, I started to find out I really don't need others to appreciate or thanks for my help, I just do what I want to do. So I don't even think about if someone would help me if I am in need, as it most likely no one will help me, it is unfair but it is life, I can help someone and think they would help me in return, there's always no guarantee.
• United States
10 May 09
yes i help out in a food kitchen during thanksgiving cooking ham and turkeys for aa and n.a. persons who have nowhere to go or live. just lately i asked a friend ? who's wife owns a cafe to get me a price on a case of coffee cups and lid's, never happened and all it would take is a phone call to chenny brothers or sysco to check on a price. give me a break. but they have to live with it, if it even bothers them at all. if i got half the money back i lent people, i'd be livin in bora,bora. but maybe it'll get me alittle closer to the clouds.