Formalities between Best Friends...
By abhaijith
@abhaijith (2963)
India
June 17, 2009 11:49am CST
Hi Mylotters,
Do you have best friend(s)?Definitely i have,one.We don't keep formalities between us,she don't like it,yeah for me to.
I think,Saying 'Sorry','Thanks' and other such formalities will make some distance in such strong relations.right?
Do you keep such formalities to your best friend or dearest ones?
3 responses
@arkadeb313 (593)
• India
18 Jun 09
Hello abhaijith, in our country India we live a less formal life though days are changing. Even then between family members we do not try to maintain formalities. So is the case with the ones who are very close to us. They may be best friend, relatives, neighbors etc. We behave formally when the relation is not so close. Here I am talking about what is followed in my family and around.
I agree with you cent percent. I feel that using these formal words create a distance and if it goes on, a feeling comes to mind that the other person is not taking me as a close one. So for a very close one 'no formalities'.
Happy mylotting

@kalenastar (59)
• United States
18 Jun 09
I still say "sorry" and "thanks" to my friends, if I really mean them! We also definitely don't keep some formalities, though. In other words, us girls burp and fart in front of each other, we speak our mind...no matter what. Because if you can't be comfortable, be yourself in front of each other, and accept those sort of things...then what kind of friends are you??
@deepzholic (256)
• India
17 Jun 09
yes i agree with you abhaijith........i also never keep formalities with my best friends......we fight we have many arguments.....but at the end of the day we both call each other and the things get soughed out easily....without a sorry or anything else.......




