If your partner cheated would you like to know?

Ofcourse why not.I would like to know every move of my guy in case he is cheating me.I hate fake, cheater and liars because they are not that true to themselves and to us.I would not intrest myself in knowing the reason why he is cheating me, but i would loved if he had that sense enough to tell me over my face that he is leaving me/;

Have you heard of the saying, "what you don't know won't hurt you?", well I have. Yes its obviously true, because you are deprived of the facts. But when it comes to cheating, I would rather be hurt and know the truth, rather than be "un-knowledgeable" about it and be happy. In my previous relationships I have always told them this. Pleas hurt me and tell me whats true. Because that's what relationships are mainly about, trusting them that they will still love you even though you did something wrong. It is better for my conscience to reveal something that may hurt my partner than forever hold the truth.

Yes and no. Yes, that way I could kill him. No, because I'd go to prison for killing him! LOL Seriously though, I'd want to know. And as his wife I have the right to know. I wouldn't want him bringing home some disease to me, after all.

I hate liars too. For me I would really prefer to know if my partner cheated on me. I'm faithful and I expect my partner to be faithful too. And I dont like to have a partner that is a cheater.

It depends on the people involved. Some people can handle knowing and some can't. For me personally, yeah, I'd want to know. I'm very understanding when it comes to that kind of stuff. If they cheat there is a reason why. Sometimes it's not to hurt the other person, but just a moment of weakness. People and relationships are difficult and sometimes when we work outside of the home, we spend more time with our co-workers than we do anyone else. We become close to people and sometimes there are just certain connections and certain weaknesses. Of course we all know that cheating shouldn't happen but it does. The thing is sometimes the other person isn't as forgiving as they should be and doesn't recognize the we are all human and we all fall at some time.

hi isabella, i would like to know the truth. i don't like cheating and pretending to be honest with me. i know that would hurt me, but still i prefer honesty. i have seen many husbands fool their wives by acting nice to them, outside they do whatever they want. i hate that. it is better to say what you are.. if one day she comes to know from someone else, you will never be able to forgive him.