Will you cheat on your partner?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
10 responses
@cookiecrumbles (629)
• United States
28 Jun 09
That is one thing my partners never had to worry about. I am a very loyal person. I would never cheat on someone because I wouldn't want it done to me. And because I have had it done to me in the past. I know what it feels like so I would never do it to someone.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
28 Jun 09
Nice to note that. Your partner is lucky then. But men cheat on more than women, this is Universal, what do you think?
@eshaan (6188)
• India
28 Jun 09
situations in life are unperdictable...but probably no...i dont think there is any such person....for whom i will think to cheat my hubby....and its actually not cheating...i think ...even if the others do it ....there must be something lacking that they search happiness elsewhere.....their partners must have done something wrong to them...so its just the reaction of an action...this is my opinion..dont know...probably i am not inteeligent or wise enough to define things....but i think ....no...
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
28 Jun 09
No eshaan , even if there is nothing lacking people might go for another relationships. It depends on individual and the kind of attraction they come across in life.
Thank God, I did not come across any irresistable women in my life after my marriage. I had a few proposals that I could turn down easily.
I hope I won't come across any big attractions in my life hereafter, what do you think?lol
@dodo19 (48120)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
27 Jun 09
Absolutely not! I would not cheat on my fiance. I would never consider thinking about cheating on him, whether I knew I was going to get caught or not. I love him too much to do that. Besides it's not right to cheat on your partner. I don't think that I could justify cheating on my fiance. I really do not think that I could.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
28 Jun 09
Nice to note almost all the people don't want to cheat on spouses.It seems mylot is full of good people only.
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
28 Jun 09
No i wont cheat my partner at any cost. To me my partner is the most attractive person in this universe then how can i cheat my partner.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
27 Jun 09
I would never cheat on my partner, even if I could do it without being found out. I love him, and I wouldn't want to jeopardise our relationship in any way. I love to flirt, but I make sure the lines are drawn and neither of us steps over the line between harmless flirting and infidelity. My husband is also an incorrigible flirt, but if anyone tried to take it further, he just wouldn't do it. We both value what we have too much, although we both enjoy the ego boost of admiration from an attractive stranger.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
28 Jun 09
You have given a fantastic answer and you sound very frank and open. But I think it is very difficult for a man to resist temptation. One needs control of mind to reject such a wonderful opportunity(Don't jump into conclusions that I will use such opportunity,lol, I have self control and it is very difficult to make me yield to temptations)
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
28 Jun 09
it's not the chance of being caught or if your partner will gonna find out or not that matters with cheating...it's "FEAR OF GOD "...if you had fear from heavens above you will never think of cheating.i guess you know what i mean my friend.as a good christian and God fearing person..i know you know that and you will agree =))
@emmanola (482)
•
28 Jun 09
Absolutely NO! My phylosophy is: "Do unto others as you would want others do unto you". It's a shameful thing for one to cheat on one's partner, if one does so, one has cheated on oneself too. The reason is simple, because one has been unfaithful, it's easier to assume that one's loving and faithful partner is probably unfaithful and any little disagreement will be a catalyst to destroy the relationship.
What about if one has a verifiable evidence that one's partner is cheating, cheating on the unfaithful partner is not the solution. If you love each other, dialogue, patience and forgiveness should be the approach to follow. I agree that this approach may seem unfair but, I feel, it works more often than not.
@James72 (26790)
• Australia
27 Jun 09
Heck no! If I had inclinations such as these then I should have never entered into a serious comittment with a partner in the first place. Regardless of whether I was guaranteed to never be caught or not, karma would get me in the end and it's morally and ethically wrong. I could never live with the guilt and the feelings of betrayal within myself either.
How would someone feel if their partner was to do the same? Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
27 Jun 09
nope!
Why? Is your partner not giving you everything you need in a relationship? Talk to them tell them, if its fixable fix it if not leave, then do your thing..
It is not a good idea, how could you be with someone you do not care enough about that you would do it..Even if they never found it you'd still have to live with it.
@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 09
I will not cheat my partner even i get the opportunity.I will feel i have done a worst thing if i cheat him and will feel what if he do the same thing just because i do it.So,i will not cheat my partner.I think i will get more problem if i start cheating people.Have a nice day.









