Would you believe that nearly everyone has the same name here?

@thea09 (18305)
Greece
July 7, 2009 6:34am CST
Due to a local tradition the first born child is named after the grandfather. So if the grandfather has four children then the first born male of each child takes his name. Combined with the total unpronouncibility of most surnames this leads to lots of confusion and as many people end up with the same name. There are probably ten first names which are practically the only names we hear round here and it means that they each have to be identified by a characteristic or another family member, if someone starts discussing someone called Nikos for example you have to ask which Nikos as you are bound to know at least ten of them. Does this happen in your culture too and if it did would you find it confusing too?
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@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
7 Jul 09
It is interesting to know this practice in your culture. In China, there are still some surnames whose newly born children take a certain character as part of their first name, so that wherever they come from the country, people know which generation they are under the surname. It is not compulsary, though.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
8 Jul 09
Hi zhuhuifen, when I said they are identified by some characteristic I really meant that in order to identify whom you are speaking about you will add something distincive to describe them, hence 'fat Nikos', 'bald Nikos' 'Nikos from such and such place' which would refer to the village they originated from rather than the village they live in now, people are identified thus by their hair colour, lack of teeth, relatives etc. Of course not everyone uses the same descriptions but most are generally acknowledged, but hell would break loose if the people described ever knew they were being described as such!
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• China
21 Jul 09
Thanks for adding me on the list.
@checkmail (2039)
• India
21 Jul 09
Hello thea09 this is checkmail and yes in our culture there are many families with that type of name system, nearly same name.But same name doesn't create any problem for us to indentify as there are also nicknames and additional addings or shorting to it.Suppose the grandfathers name was ramashankar, their grandchildrens names are rama and shankar.So this doesn't create confusion at all.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
21 Jul 09
Hi Checkmail, the shortening of names here just adds to the general confusion. Panioytis can be Takis or Panos but different people will refer to him by each shortened version. I was talking with a friend the other day and someone was mentioned by name and they didn't know who I meant - I said the brother of Takis but that just didn't narrow it down at all as between us we must know at least ten people with the name of Takis who also sometimes go under the name Panioytis.
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21 Jul 09
I’ve not really noticed it with UK names but I use to go out with an Italian and always struggled as a lot of the family and friends all had the same names. I lost count of the number of Maria’s, Tony’s and Paul’s which I met and was always clueless to which one they meant when the name was raised in a discussion.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 09
Dear thea, It is really interesting to read your topic of discussion. I always learn many new things on your wonderful and unique cultures. In Malaysia nowadays, names are more creative and modernised compared to olden days. But my father generation, there are only a few common names available..some example of the first name; Chinese Names : Ah Seng, Ah Meng Common Sir Names : Tan, Lim, Wong... If we are mentioning of someone we will said Tan who works as a plumber, Tan the rubber tapper, or Tan the contractor'son etc Common Malay's name : Abu Bakar, Ali, Hassan, Abdul Common Indian's name : Muthu, Ravi, Sammi Happy myLotting and do keep in touch :)
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
22 Aug 09
Hi Iriene, it is interesting that you are breaking away from the traditional culture of naming faster than we are, here families will fall out if the tradition is broken. Everyone having the same few names though seems to be prevalent in both our cultures, Tan for Tasos, Ali for Andonis, Sammi for Sortiris. It's quite funny really, and also the way that you then identify them by their trade or a family member, it is almost the same here except that we tend to use physical characteristics, so we often have white or black in front of a name which may describe someone by their hair colour. I don't know what will happen when Black Vangellis ages a little more and his hair becomes white as then we will have two White Vangellis in the village and may have to move onto another physical characterstic to describe them. Thea.