what would you do?

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I matched two of my friends and now the female isnt talking to me because she said that i am taking sides.I knew the guy since child-hood and we have always confided in each other.Now i thought that i knew the girl but i guess it was my mistake. The guy is sensitive and romantic but he like being treated too.He has two kids and they live abroad with their mom.Now mind you he lives for those kids.I know it has been a while since they were here so when he told me they were visiting this summer i was estatic since the youngest is my god-child and i want to see her badly. They are here and i am all over the place with the family mother included and they are having fun like old times.So i guess they clicked and he is thinking of going back with them.I am home and he came over telling the story of his relationship with the girl i am so appalled that i couldnt talk.Which woman in their right mind would love a man but not his kids?At least unless the give you a reason not to. He tells me that the girl always feel threaten when his kids are there and she is rude to them.He said that for the past few months all she could say is that he has changed and he not treating her good. she went the extra mile where she slapped the boy because he broke a pair of plastic earrings.I thought that was bad and i said as much to her.I have a five year old daughter whom i adore and she is very troublesome but if i am dating someone and that guy lay a hand on my her because of something so petty trust i would scream wolf.He broke up with her and she is telling all her friends and family its because of me.They always had issues because they had different attitudes.But he was really hoping that things would work out. Now i am a deciever and all the bad names in the book.what would you do?