why love marriages fails?
By renjinivinu
@renjinivinu (173)
India
August 3, 2009 3:58am CST
i heard a lot tht... the failure rate of love marriages are more than arranged marriage? wat is ur opinion abt tht... wat would be the reasons for tht?
6 responses
@starlight70 (316)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 09
Perhaps those who find marriages on their own are more liberal in their thinking. They come and they go. Those who settle for arranged marriages may be those who are more receptive of any hardship in the relationship. Maybe, just maybe, that is why they endure.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
3 Aug 09
Love marriages dont fails by itself. They are made to fail by no co operation and assistance from the elders.. Most love marriages take place without the consent of elders. Factors like caste, religion and finance come in the way. So in love marriages,when a problem or misunderstanding arise, the couples are allowed to fend for themselves. Most arranged marriages are done by the consent of elders. So even if there are misundestandings, the elders get together to sort it out. It is also a matter of status and prestige of the elders. So they wont let it break that easily..
@eLsMarie (4477)
• New Zealand
3 Aug 09
often times arranged marriage occurs parents pair their sons/daughters to a son/daughter to a rich family. as a result, they obey to what their parents asked them and breaking their parents wants would definitely their greatest fear... aside from that, they won't be having problems financially... money is power and it's the number one cause to why a lot of couples end their relationships...
@ezrah27 (63)
• Philippines
3 Aug 09
maybe in their relationship theres no love,understanding and dont have a time..right??
@radx682 (327)
• India
3 Aug 09
I think its the way you see it..I can put it in a better way that most of the marriages today are a failure...be it love or arranged?? It is mainly due to misunderstandings, ego problems, need for freedom to do anything they like, lack of adjustment, no compromises....so I would say if any of these is not met, it leads to issues which actually can be sorted out if both sit and think with a calm mind...but most of the time they are afraid to keep up the relationship and because they are cowards basically, they run away from each other's life and prefer staying alone.
@tutor19us (455)
• India
3 Aug 09
Love marriages dont fail. Its just that 2 people who are not right together have given up on their marriage. They may or may not be right but the thing is they have quit trying to hold together the relation. They must fight and live up the challenge. Love marriages are nothing but a dream gone sour. People think that the honemoon will continue for the whole life but when reality bites, love flies out from the nearest window!





