Cold Feet
By bluehibiscus
@bluehibiscus (702)
United States
August 6, 2009 10:13pm CST
I think I have cold feet. Most days I am completely committed to the person I'm with but sometimes there is a part of me that just wishes we weren't together anymore. I love him, but sometimes IO see how stuffy, cold, and serious he can be and I think do i really want to spend my life with him? Other days I see him as an integral part of me, my other half.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Aug 09
hi bluehibiscus those words cold, stuffy, serious sound a
warning bell to me, think this over, could be your
gut feeling is telling you you like him, even love him some
but hes just not who y ou want to spend the rest of your
life with. to me cold and stuffy sounds miserable and lonely to live with. just tread carefully thats all.
@bluehibiscus (702)
• United States
7 Aug 09
He's very sweet and funny, very smart. I am probably just having a bad day.
@stephwrites (275)
• United States
11 Aug 09
dear blueh. I know this is a pat answer and maybe one you havae heard before. but how about making a list of his good points and his bad. then take a look at the bad and decide if they are not so bad or really bad, even really, really bad. Life is a period of time and you don't want to waste it with someone you don't love with all of your heart. I know this from personal experience! And don't stay with him just because you don't want to be alone, alone is better than 'really, really bad'!!
