Why people like to break the rules?

Philippines
September 27, 2009 4:14pm CST
When I was a kid there's a lot of things that my mom told me about dos and dont's. Like I'm not allowed to climb in the tree, to go out side without permission, or play with just anybody. My mom did explained it to me the reasons. But sometimes I dare to ignore those rules, I was curious what's outside of it, and gladly I get on my way without my mom's noticed. What do you think, we people like doing things that is not allowed?
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@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Some say rules are made to be broken, others say rules are there to keep us safe. If we didn't have street signs and every one drove every which way, how safe would that be? If you climbed a tree, and couldn't get back down, how safe are you? Yes, life is about taking risks, but not when it puts your life in danger. Some rules are just silly, and have no bearing on our safety, they are just rules to be rules....like a work rule of wearing only one ring on each hand. What is the safety in that? What is wrong with wearing two rings or even three on each hand? And what about not dating co-workers? So what????? Isn't work and social situations where we meet most of our friends? It's like school, most of us meet the majority of our friends at school, and while we are children, and teenagers school is our work. Some rules I choose to ignore and some rules I follow, especially if I know it could cause harm to me or someone else. No drinking on the job is a great rule, and keeps us safe as well as our co-workers. I think rules need to be evaluated by the individual whether or not they are going to break them or not. Some rules were created to make children and families safe as well and we need to keep these in mind before we even attempt to break the rule. Like no drinking while driving...that is a safety rule for all of us, though some choose to ignore it and put their lives in danger as well as the lives of others..We need to be careful about the rules we break and what we allow our children to do.
• Philippines
28 Sep 09
Yeah, you're right we should be very careful on choosing the rules to break, since we're the once who face the consequences of our actions. And every rules that we break thus have a corresponding punishment or consequences and often it's against us. I think some rules are implemented for everyone's benefit within the place. Like you said you're not allowed dating with co workers. I agree with that rule. Since work would be affected, you can't help not to bring your personal issues over work. It happened to one of my co-workers, but our company did allowed on that before but since what happened to my friend the management changed their rules. Anyway you're right there are just some rules who has no relevant meaning or reasons. Sometimes people break rules because they're not comfortable with it, and it's human nature to take the easy way out. Not realizing that every rules made was for the benefit of every one. So it's really nice to think first before breaking the rules, not just on our own benefit but for others as well. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and have a great day!
@Simon1223 (903)
• China
28 Sep 09
In my view, people break the rules for they could benefit from their conduct. Many rules are made in order to preserve the community interest. If there's no such rule, the community will pay a heavy price. If everybody in the community obey the rule, the community will benefit from it. But if somebody break the rule while others obey it, he or she could benefit from it at the cost of others. Pursuing interests is human nature, so if he or she could benefit from his or her conduct of breaking rule without any punishment, why not? In a word, if the rule maker could not establish a effective system which could ensure the implementation of rules, it's easy for people to break rules and the rules will soon exist in name only.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
27 Sep 09
Children especially will push the limits placed on them by their parents and the reason is usually as you said, curiosity. As adults we sometimes break the rules because we find them unnecessary. For instance seat belt laws. I do agree that wearing your seal belt helps to keep you safer in your vehicle in the event of an accident but I live in a very small town were there is little traffic and the speed limit is 35mph...and I drive a big truck. So, when I go to town I usually don't wear my selt belt. If I'm going someplace else I will wear it but around here it's not necessary.