copy cat
By teecarter
@teecarter (2)
United States
October 4, 2009 12:21am CST
have anybody ever been through this? my best friend is a copy cat... when ever i tell her i want something or i'm going to get something she beats me to it. then when i get it, it seems like i'm copying off her...i need help!!! what should i do???
4 responses
@mesuaky (397)
• Singapore
4 Oct 09
if it bother you that your best friend is like this then i think you should in the first talk to her about it, and if her purpose is to annoy you then i think you shouldn't even consider her as your bestfriend. But if she does this because she wanted to be same as you either because she looks up to you and she seems to think you her idol then thats a different case. You need to let her know how you feel so you can settle your issues.
@nagikka (407)
• Italy
4 Oct 09
I have the same problem with my sister, she even steals my online nicknames. Once my ex-best friend and me were talking, he's a guy that I met online and we were having a chat about middle names. I said most italian people don't have middle names but that I'd like to have one, so e came up with one for me. I recently found out that my sister stole my middle name of which I'm jealous and she's using it herself. I know it sounds silly but it makes me mad.
@sunstar402 (676)
• India
4 Oct 09
Hi There, I too face this issue with my friend but till now i am not able to find the answer to the problem. i hope some experienced members here will be able to let us know how to tackle this issue.
@LdeL0318 (6400)
• Philippines
4 Oct 09
Well that was only irritating if you don't want to have similar things with your best friend. I know that it sometimes annoying. But if you don't want her copying you just tell her about it. there's no problem that can't be settled in talking. Another option is for you not to tell her those things that you would like to have. In that case you'll be the first one to have it. Why don't you like her to imitate you? maybe she just wants both of you to have the same things since you are best friends. Personally, I don't mind having things similar to my friends. We even buy same things together.




