Life after being a female exotic dancer....
@beautifulBrooke (191)
United States
October 22, 2009 1:02am CST
Hi everyone,
I was an exotic dancer for 13 years. I quit dancing 6 years ago. Working in the adult entertainment industry for that long really takes it's toll on a person.
Is there anyone out there who has a difficult time trusting men or maybe problems w/ intimacy because of their previous (or even current) occupation?
5 responses
@jndlponti (2402)
• Philippines
26 Oct 09
No I haven't yet. Actually the truth is that you are the first person I have meet. I know it must have been difficult trusting guys because of your pervious work. But I believe that there are still some man out there who respects women despite of whatever there past may be.
I salute you for being so honest and brave enough to share that to evryone. You really are a strong person and I can feel that you are a beautiful person inside and out.
@beautifulBrooke (191)
• United States
26 Oct 09
Thank you very much! Actually I did find a good man so I married him ... :-)
My testimony is not hard to share really... God got me out of that life style so I could help others get out.
@iola2012 (172)
• Philippines
21 Jul 12
Things happen..but I still believe that if someone really loves you, the past life doesn't matters. I am not a prejudice, each one of us has the right to love and to be loved. I hope you can find true love and the right soul mate for you.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
22 Oct 09
Hey,
Well yes iam sure its a tough job. Here in my country we have dance bars which is illegal and the girls are caught by the cops sometimes and then its really a sad story.
I feel pity for them as they r doing it for surviving and not for fun. And yes i have heard cases that where they have quit their job and moved on but still had trouble with their previous customers.
I guess its a very diffcult question to answer. I hope u find peace in your life and be able to forget the mistakes u made earliar in yr life.
Re-settling in a new place and trying to start a new life may be is a good idea. Iam sure u will find good people whom u can trust and vice versa.
Cheers,
Tutul
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
22 Oct 09
Hey,
Well yes iam sure its a tough job. Here in my country we have dance bars which is illegal and the girls are caught by the cops sometimes and then its really a sad story.
I feel pity for them as they r doing it for surviving and not for fun. And yes i have heard cases that where they have quit their job and moved on but still had trouble with their previous customers.
I guess its a very diffcult question to answer. I hope u find peace in your life and be able to forget the mistakes u made earliar in yr life.
Re-settling in a new place and trying to start a new life may be is a good idea. Iam sure u will find good people whom u can trust and vice versa.
Cheers,
Tutul
@JohnJeff (720)
• Malaysia
22 Oct 09
13 years is a long time.I think you have your own reason that make you in such industry for a long period.Welcome to mylot.Hopefully you enjoy in this site and make many friends.Maybe you still not trust any man at the moment.But, I'm sure you will find what you are loking for.
