Friends With Benefits,huh?
By eurekafemme
@eurekafemme (5874)
Philippines
November 11, 2009 9:33am CST
Friends. Maybe, the description of friendship has changed as time became older and the world has been more modernized. A friend confessed that he was making out with his lady friend.No. It is clear to him that they are not lovers, nor sweethearts or anything that will categorized their relationship as romantic.But, whenever they feel like it or if the mood sets it right they just dive into it. Their reason was, she has no boyfriend and he has no girlfriend, too.So, why just they can't make it official since they are sharing this kind of intimacy which only lovers must do?I'm just saying my thoughts out loud.Would you engage yourself in such activity with your friend?
3 responses
@chantalgiardina (2523)
• United States
14 Nov 09
I used to have a "friend with benefits", we wanted to be together but both had just ended a relationship and needed time to really get over that and heal.. It lasted about 6 months but then i decided i was ready and he wasnt so we moved on.. We dont really talk anymore as He went to school with my hubby and i understand how that could be uncomfortable for my husband.
@allen0187 (59645)
• Philippines
12 Nov 09
hi eureka.
friends with benefits... fubus... call it what you want but i think this is all foregone conclusion. since time immemorial people have been cheating on their partners. this is nothing new and like what you said the meaning of 'friendship' has dramatically changed.
for the situation that you cited, i see nothing wrong since both of them are unattached and probably are too afraid to commit to each other so they decided to take this route. can't really blame them what with all the horror stories that we hear about couples who hit it off well at the start and then the whole relationship spirals down out of control after the first month or so. lol!
as for your question... i'd rather keep that information to myself. lol!!!
cheers!!!
@ayebelle (367)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
Oh yeah i experienced that in one of my friend, but only a kiss. We have a limitations and it's really hard to engage on such things like that if your not being committed with that someone because he's just your friend. Ok let say, you guys did that and accidentally you get pregnant, well that's a totally sh*t then! Your right the world has been more modernized but we should think the consequences every action we take.




