Why do some myLotters...

United States
December 6, 2009 5:59am CST
.....use the Bold script so much? There is one user who posts everything discussions and responses in bold. I have always thought this bold script was used to emphasise a particular word or phrase. I get the impression that they are screaming read me read me and I for one do not like to be yelled at. Perhaps they feel insecure or no-one will read it unless it jumps out and hits the reader in the face. Do you have any thoughts on this? It may be trivial but I find it very annoying and IMO seem to lose the emphasis on the important points. Your comments?
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Yes I have saw a few like this and wondered if they do it so they can see the words they have wrote.
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@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Well i see that there is alot of talk on this post lol. Iwill try never to shout at anyone lololol. I do caps only to get a poin across. Yup Quita a longgggggggggggggg day
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
That's precisely why I did it, Lakota, but please note, just a few minutes ago Letran posted the correct instructions on how to magnify a page (someone else gave incorrect instructions, so I just assumed my computer wouldn't accommodate that option), so I've returned to using the non-bold font because I can! Yay! No more squinting! Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLERS BEWARE!___^..^
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Wow, I just tried what Letran said to do with the control 0 and + and it works !!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can see it all plain and clear lOL thanks, letran ;) Hi to you Lakota, been a long day, huh????
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7 Dec 09
I find it's just another font that people use. As long as it's a font that is easy to read then I don't see a problem with whatever font someone is using. It just depends which one you want to use.
• United States
7 Dec 09
Hurrah, Hurrah! A response in normal text! It is truly a miracle her visual impairment (excuse) has been healed! PTL!
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Hello, Lakerfanster! (Love that name! You'd think most people would see it that way. In fact, the majority of professionally-printed matter is in some kind of bold font, the better to assure their public to read, but I've never seen any letters from their readers asking them to "Oh, pleeeease use a small, pale gray font that's hard to see with tired old eyes!" LOL! But some here have accused me of all manner of ugly motives for having used it. The fact is--as I explained again & again--I thought I had to, in order to see my own posts, as my eyes are easily tired, & the regular font looks small, pale gray, & strains my eyes! For this I was accused of lying about having poor eyesight! What rudeness! As you can see, this post is not in bold, because a nice person (Letran) happened to post instructions on how to magnify the page. Now, I'm back to using regular type, which is a lot less bother than using the bold! Yay! Thank you for understanding. Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLS BEWARE!___^..^
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
6 Dec 09
Some users use the bold and italics very aptly while, as you suggest, others just use it all the time and personally it has now got so that I skip those posts. They look harsh and I see no differences between using bold or caps lock (which is against the rules). One of these tried to justify why they use it all the time but it was a senseless excuse in my opinion. If we can't read posts because of eyesight problems there are other methods and using bold all the time is not one of them. We would only see out own posts then anyway and that kind of says a lot lol
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• Philippines
6 Dec 09
hello again Aunt D. I guess you're right about that since not every can actually zoom the screen here using CTRL 0 and + here to see the better view. you're right anyways, but the idea of typing post with bold and capitalize letters can no doubt make another user angry for sure.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
I know that my oldest daughter has problems reading things on the computer screen, especially if it is large blocks of text. She doesn't really have eye problems, per se, but she should be using glasses to read but refuses to do so. Instead of making everything bold, though, she just highlights the part that she is reading and then goes on and highlights the next bit when she is done with the first. The highlighting makes the text white on a dark background, and for some reason this makes it easier on her eyes and for her to read. She can read the other but will end up with a headache in a very short amount of time if she does not do the highlighting when she reads. Perhaps this technique might work for others that might not have thought to try it.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
By the way, MysD, in reference to your comment below about active referrals. I will have you know that all active referrals have not become extinct. In fact, I have earned enough to allow the person that I signed under to almost reach payout without doing anything themselves, which I think is pretty darn good, even if I do say so myself.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Dec 09
Hi whiteheather, I find it looks very aggressive and emphatic, but less annoying than those who use caps. I've read why it is done but it did seem to scream out attention seeking.
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• United States
9 Dec 09
I think Maggiepie who identified herself has really gone into overkill in this discussion I did not call her out personally as being guilty of this annoying habit. I am so happy I do not have to get any more notifications of her discussions with the "cutesy" closings.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
I'd already explained why I did it--several times--but apparently the discussion header here thinks I'm lying. If she wanted to verify that I was telling the truth, she could easily have checked with Elicbxn, who posts here, who also sees me all week long. She'll vouch for me having had surgery--but the person who called me a cop-out & a liar, making up my bad eyesight--to me, that's just weird. What the heck does she care anyhow? No-one's forcing her to read my posts! Anyway, please note that as SOON as I found out how to magnify my page, I dropped the bold, as it's NOT my wish to be thought "screaming," & I don't NEED it any more to see the posts. I always bend over backwards, but this woman has gone out of her way to get on my case--& again, to what gain? As Quita pointed out, instead of telling me how to enlarge the print, she just jumped down my throat, & assumed I knew how! Are people born knowing these things? No, it just seems she wants a fight with me, though why is a mystery to me. I have never said one bad word to her! Now I'm just going to ignore her. I believe I'm done every possible thing to clear this up. If she continues to harangue me, well, I'll just report her 'til she stops. Shrug, even! Anyway, enjoy the new, non-bold me! Maggiepie Human. Just like you.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Dec 09
Well I hope you saw my note to pass on how you've enlarged it to Aunty as her eyes do get tired. I kept making a mess when I tried to bold my responses to her but she does appreciate it. I've no idea if you've upset this poster or not but certainly in the past you've made some uncalled for comments about others (me) which certainly do look much worse in bold. It could have been about anyone but with your intervention here it has made it appear as though its you so will probably be delted. I started one the other night about rabbit leaving and can only presume as it was about someone that is why it was deleted. Is it you who is having the surgery this week Mags?
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@inedible (768)
• Singapore
6 Dec 09
I think there's one person who mentioned doing it because they had trouble reading unbolded words.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
What a strange reason. So this person you are referring to cannot read their own words or wants all myLot posts to be in bold. Why would they not just enlarge/magnify the script on their computer????
@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
6 Dec 09
I saw one particular user who always uses bold was justifying it for the same reason. Weird because does that also imply that they can then only read their own posts lol?
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
6 Dec 09
[b]WHITEHEATHER: because it doesn't work on mine. When I followed the directions (& I checked them & tried several times), all it did was just stop me from posting at all. Can't have that! Maggiepie STALKERS BEWARE! ATTACK CAT INSIDE!___^..^
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@quita88 (3715)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Don't you yourself find own self trying really hard to read some discussions?? I do. The bold print is to emphasize a word or a phrase but some us who are older can't read this small print and therefore use the bold. There is nobody screaming at you:) and no bad feelings intended at all, just need to be able to read what is written. On some discussions, I highlight what is written--yours too, sorry, but hard to read otherwise and I can read it with no problems. The things member do do that ticks me off is write LONG discussions. I don't want to read those and leave them for those who do. And, whiteheather, that is my comments this fine Sunday.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
No I never find myself having a problem reading discussions but if the day comes when I do I shall just use the screen magnifier (available on every computer). I would not subject or expect others to have to adjust their eyesight to accommodate my personal visual problems. Seems rather selfish to me. That is my comment on this fine Sunday.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Quita, you're correct--I wasn't "screaming." One needs constant caps to indicate that. There were no "bad feelings" at all, just an inability to see without squinting & making my eyes so tired they hurt, when trying to make out small, pale gray print! However, as you can see, I've just now learned--during this thread--the correct way to magnify the page (I was given faulty instructions before, so magnification seemed off limits to me). Ergo, no more need to use the bold font other than for emphasis! This is a joy to me. Thank you for your understanding words. Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLERS BEWARE!___^..^
@quita88 (3715)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Duly noted!
@GardenGerty (169406)
• United States
6 Dec 09
I guess on the Bold posting, yes, Iuse it for emphasis, but I think some other people just use it because it is a more attractive font or is darker and easier to read. It does look nicer. There are people with visual impairments who post either in bold or in caps a lot. MyLot has asked the caps to stop. I just have sympathy for those who cannot see. Of course they could personally adjust the view on their own computer.
• United States
6 Dec 09
That still does not make sense do these people think that all myLotter are afflicted with the same visual problem. How can they they get every post printed in bold to help them when the bold option is only available to me and what I post and surely I can (hopefully) see my OWN words and know what I have posted. As you say.."they could personally adjust the view on their own computer." Sorry but I find your excuse a cop-out for rudeness.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
GardenGerty--Thank you for the reasonableness of your post, & the sympathy. As you can see, this post is not in bold type, as Letran just now gave me the correct instructions on how to magnify the pages, so now, even my tired eyes can see it. So rejoice with me! The previous instructions I was given just didn't work, or I would have done this weeks ago! Thanks for the patience with me, dear, & for not assigning evil motives to me, as a couple here have done. But then, I always have found you to be extra sweet. Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLERS BEWARE!___^..^
@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
6 Dec 09
I haven't noticed that. I must not be friends with that person. I never use the bold feature. I use the italics, but usually nothing else.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
If you notice one of the responses and comments on page 1 of this discussion you can get a pretty good idea of what I am referring to.
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@AmbiePam (120533)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Oh, okay, I see it.
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
And now, thanks to Letran, I can do that too! See the other responses I've made. (But some folks just aren't happy unless everyone does things the way they do! Ahem! to them! LOL!) Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLERS BEWARE!___^..^
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
7 Dec 09
Hi white! I fully endorse your views that using 'bold' script in the entire discussion does not look good. It also looks odd to me. I fail to understand why don't some people type in normal script and make the letters bold, which need to be highlighted. I do not use bold script and I only make use of it, when I want others attention on some particular words. Hope those who use it frequently may read your discussion and will get the point. Good Post!
• United States
10 Dec 09
You are using the bold font for exactly the correct reasons. Thanks!
@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
6 Dec 09
It's also against the guidelines to put everything in caps. When I see something in all caps, I usually go right past it because it's very hard to read and I don't have a lot of time to devote here. I don't know why people do that other than the fact that they are very passionate about the subject--but I can barely read things like that so it definitely doesn't work on me.
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
That's too bad, as I've always enjoyed your posts, even when I had to struggle to see them. Please the rest of my responses here to get the whole story. Thank you, Dragon. Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLS BEWARE!___^..^
@jazel_juan (15745)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
hmmm as far as i know, bold letters are like shouting.. but maybe some like it because it draws attention and maybe for some they are not used to typing that much that they would rather use one type of letter and that is capslock..i am just speculating here but i do not know much. I just use bold letters for my subject title..to draw attention hehehe.. guilty
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
I've never heard anyone outside this forum saying using the bold type equates with "screaming" or "shouting." I have, conversely,often heard that all caps Is frowned upon for that very reason. I only used those--in small amounts--when I really wanted special attention, as in my signature below. Now, there probably are some outside this forum who've said bold fonts equate with shouting, but Ive just never seen it. And I've seen numerous people say that about using constant caps. Shrug. Either way, I can read it, so it's no biggie to me, as it is to some, I guess. Apparently the PTBs here are fine with bold, as none of my posts have ever been deleted for it since I began using it to help see the page. Note that this (& more recent posts in this thread) are in regular type. I would have always used such had I known how to magnify the page! It's kind of a pain to go to the extra trouble when using bold, you see, as, if you decide after you bold to change something, you must be sure to stay inside the bold codes so as not to foul things up for yourself. The last thing I do before posting is copy everything I've written, as I've learned from sad experience that my post may get lost on the way to a thread! That way, if I do lose it, I can immediately replace it. And I spend far too much time making sure my posts are well-thought out to risk losing them--so I copy. And having to avoid the bold codes every single time is the pits. And now, I don't have to! Yay!! I'm very glad to be able to return to regular font--one I can see, now! Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLS BEWARE!___^..^
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
hello white heather, well, there is another mylotter who makes it's post all BOLD and end the statement with a question about Obama's what ever, but that's the users initiative to simply express themselves. we understand you, but don't worry yourself too much of it. As for me, before the one thing i really hate is inactive referrals, you know, those people who signs in and then doesn't do a thing here. but that was before, now it doesn't bother me that much
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@mysdianait (66005)
• Italy
6 Dec 09
I am beginning to think that active referrals have become extinct
@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
No, not really, Thea. It's just that there are other things, plus, now that about a 4th of the US is asking the question, I figure the point is now made. But you'll see him again, trust me, since he's still shredding the Constitution left & right. Well, mostly Left... Maggiepie WHERE ARE ANY OF HIS RECORDS? AND WHY IS HE ABOVE THE LAW?
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
7 Dec 09
Hi Letran - you're out of date now, Obama has been replaced by stalkers.
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• United States
6 Dec 09
I try to use the bold, italics, underline and caps to emphasize a point or show that I copied something from another source to expand upon that particular comment (or whatever it was), etc. Usually the caps is for extra emphasis, but I do not necessarily think that it is shouting, especially if it is do on only a word or two. I understand how it would be more difficult to put emphasis in your writing if it was all done in bold or caps, though. Would the emphasized part then need to be lowercase or unbolded for emphasis?
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
I used italics & underlining for emphasis. Now, thanks to Letran, I know how to magnify the page, so I've returned to regular font, since I can see it just fine! Maggiepie ATTACK CAT ON BOARD; STALKERS/TROLLERS BEWARE!___^..^
@KompitaPita (2051)
• Bulgaria
6 Dec 09
Hi White. I like to read 'bold scripts' posts - I don't mind it like screaming or something... I get the impression that someone is screaming when he/she is using 'Caps Lock' and writing with big letters... I also love to post 'colored' posts, but for unknown reason here on My Lot it's impossible.
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
7 Dec 09
[b]Thank you, Kompitapita. You are 100% correct; it's not "screaming" or "yelling." As you rightly point out, that would be using lots & lots of all caps. That's always been the case in "netiquette." While bold may be used as emphasis, the key is having a difference in font. Thus, if you begin with bold, as I do (see reasons below someplace), then one still has other options for emphasis. I use italics, & on rare occasion, underlining. (My usual version of screaming is to use both simultaneously! ) I, too, wish we had color available, especially for things such as wishing someone "Merry Christmas" in alternating red & green letters. In my email program (gmail), I have that option, plus colored backgrounds, or even photos or artworks as background, & a host of emoticons! I find all this great fun--& what could be wrong with that? But I figure I'm blessed to have what they offer here, since, although the perks are skimpy, it still allows me to converse with folks from everywhere around the world, & even make pocket change while doing it! What a marvelous thing! Maggiepie TROLLS WILL BE EATEN BY MY NINJA CAT!___^..^
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Because they are able to do it. Regardless of the reason, we are able to use bold. Take a look at it, it makes it easier to read for me. As well, it stands out. However, I don't know if I would use bold for all my posts, that may be annoying. If you find it annoying then you will have to talk to the user who is doing that, right? Take care!
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
6 Dec 09
I wouldn't mind reading text in bold, but too much of it would make me go a bit blurry, lol. I prefer it like you said it too; to emphasize on a phrase or a word, rather than everything in bold. I sometimes put everything on bold in my blog and when I read back, it looks kind of cluttered so I changed it.
• United States
6 Dec 09
I see it as "overkill" because it is detracting from bold being used to emphasize. You are right it does look kind of cluttered.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
6 Dec 09
And the purpose of the meanings of the writing may be lost too..
• United States
6 Dec 09
Exactly!
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Dec 09
hi whiteheather yes I too noticed this user and it really ticks me off as we are not supposed to scream here yet she gets away with it although she has been too mouthy and did get some of her responses deleted because she was really insulting and all in bold script too. I got the feeling that she does not like any rules at all a nd will break any one she feels like. I have got so I will not respond to her discussions as she is always angry about something anyway and who needs that. No I will not respond to being yelled at myself either.
• United States
7 Dec 09
Hatley thank you for your response. I received a PM from the person who wanted to inform me she had reported me for "attacking" her ...ha, ha, ha. I did not attack her I never mentioned who the user was she identified herself. Too funny. I agree she is always angry. So in-truth I feel sorry for her she must have a very sad life being angry all the time. Anyway she has forbidden be to respond to her discussion and if I do she will report me again which is just fine with me as I have also reported her mode of postings.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
9 Dec 09
Not that old chestnut again. See my other discussion on telling me NOT to respond to any of their discussions. I believe it clocked up 126 responses and everyone agreed one just cannot do that as it is not a private forum. The obvious thing to do is reply to each of that persons future and past discussions to cause ultimate annoyance. Of course that might inspire a discussion from that person about being stalked and made to cry but they will probably tell most of the respondants that their responses are wrong.Well that's only my own experience of course.
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
9 Dec 09
oops that read wrong sorry. It wasn't Mags who told me not to respond to her discussions.
@rucrazy4 (783)
• India
6 Dec 09
For the easy reading of important point we use bold text... which is may be remember for most time... because it shows as some different .... While I cant use bold script now...
• United States
6 Dec 09
HUH!!!! you said..."While I cant use bold script now... " how strange because the word you used "bold" was formatted in bold script. Sorry but your response does not make any sense!
@rucrazy4 (783)
• India
6 Dec 09
This is habit of mine also to bold important topic... so i also used to bold text
@rucrazy4 (783)
• India
6 Dec 09
just read my second comment on it.... in first .. i self check that script .. that can i use this script... but now can i write.... so i just insert second comment too... ... so make a sense in my response...
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@Maggiepie (7816)
• United States
6 Dec 09
[b]Well, I can't say why others do it, but in my case, it's easier to see with my worn out old eyes. I've even had others with bad eyes thank me for doing it. I've always been told that using the "ALLCAPS KEY" is considered "screaming," but only rarely has anyone said that of bold type...maybe 3 or 4 people, in all these years, tops. As for emphasis, there are three options available here: italics, underlining, or using all caps (in which case, I am "shouting." After all, pro publications frequently employ bold type, & no-one complains. I think a lot of folks are too quick to misinterpret such trivial things. Thank you for not jumping to conclusions, but choosing instead to simply ask why. I wish everyone wrote in bold, so my eyes wouldn't get sore, nor would squinting wrinkles form. But I just deal... Maggiepie STALKERS BEWARE! ATTACK CAT INSIDE!___^..^
• United States
6 Dec 09
Maggie I so sorry to read about your visual impairment but at 60 your eyes are not as old as mine at 70 and I have no need to post in bold format. [b]I noticed that that just recently started this trend in your posts. I also notice that you have absolutely no problem in reading and responding to the posts which are not in bold! I think your excuse is cop-out![/b] BTW I have other myLot friends who are LEGALLY BLIND and they do not post in bold.
• United States
6 Dec 09
wonttakelong Thank you! That is exactly the point I was trying to get across. I find it to be extremely rude when my discussion was formatted in normal print yet she yells at me by responding in bold format but had no problem reading the discussion, what a cop-out. She must have selected visual impairment which is a most unusual ailment.
• United States
6 Dec 09
not trying to start anything but I have to ask when did you start having trouble reading and have to use all bold? I have seen you around here in the past and you didnt use to type in all bold did something happen to you recently that damaged your eyesight?another question... how does you typing YOUR response in bold help you to read what everyone else is saying? it doesnt help us any because now WE get the heading from reading your bold paragraph
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• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Dec 09
Hi Whiteheather, Inasmuch as we all know the usage of bold, underline and caps, the person who posted it in bold scripts may have a reason for doing so. i am not so particular with it. when i see responses in bold scripts i don't mind. i just find it as a creative way of expressing oneself. it's okay!
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