people who bring up the past

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im very sensitive whenever the past is mentioned. when i say the past, i meant relationship which involves exes. ive finally agreed to meet my bf's friends. i was hesitant at first because i know things won't be easy. this is like getting to know you pattern. things were okay at first. we enjoyed exchanging stories and such. but they spoiled it by mentioning my bf's ex. it became tensed afterwards. im not sure if they did it on purpose. while my bf reprimanded them not to mention the past anymore because he no longer cared, they still teased him anyway which even made the meeting more awkward. i nearly exploded but controlled myself because i don't want them to say something bad about me... if you were in my shoes, what would you have done? i was being scolded by my friends too because i didn't say anything about it. what do they want me to do? start a ruckus in the restaurant? LOLz. they knew im hurting and that what they are doing is to protect me but its not helping matters at all. my bf just decided not to meet them again anymore because if they're rude enough to bring it up in front of me, they are bound to do it again the next time..sigh.. people can be insensitive and downright rude!