will u request ur husband/wife to remarry ??
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
Malaysia
January 27, 2010 1:44am CST
maybe u r terminally ill or ur "infertile" ~ will u suggest such idea to ur partner.. this means we are still in love with them but just want them to carry on with their life ..
i guess i wont do that, never at all, another woman in his life means he has to share his "valuable" time with another person ..
i can never share him with another .. not while i am alive..
cheers
6 responses
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
If i am terminally ill, i would tell my wife that she should do whatever to go on with her life. it would be devastating on my part or even hers, but considering that i would be soon gone, it would be just right that she should go on and be happy because that would make me very happy.
If i am infertile, then adoption would be an option.
Anyways, in either situation, i think we could openly talk about what is needed and what could be done.
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@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 10
talking is a very goo idea, but hope our mouth n our heart says the same thing
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 10
dont worry i am not thinking anything outrahgeous ..
just saw it in a "stupid" movie ..
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 10
i got no choice but to watch those stupid movies ~ im stuck in the house over 1 month coz of the broken leg .. hope to get back to work tomorrow ..god bless
aww thanks
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
if this will happen i wont suggest or advice my wife to do something like that.... but if she wants too then just tell me than doing it without my knowledge. and please dont show it to me. this is a hard situation but i can truly understand if he finds another. i will give her the freedom but dont do it on my face. but knowing my wife i know she would rather be with me on times like this than to think about getting her self a new one.
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
27 Jan 10
wish u all the best dear.. u must love ur wife lots, she is one lucky woman
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
27 Jan 10
No I wouldn't do that and neither do I want to hear my husband suggest it to me. We both have our own minds and there are things that should be left unsaid even when one is terminally ill. I'd say don't try to be a hero and just die without being annoying. lol interesting post...thanks!
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
8 Feb 10
Hello my friend sanjana_aslam Ji,
Well, we both have never faced such a serious problem in our life, but if I had loved my hubby, I would have sacrificed for the sake of my hubby's happiness and we boyth would have atatined parent-hood incase,I was non-productive. But what about, if it was just opposite, had he allowed meand keep another husband to continue family tradition. So a provision has been made, if woman is non-productive, husband may marry to continue with generation. I would have sacrificed as I love him very much.
May God bless You and have a great time.
