Phobos! OF BEING ALONE
By LIENROSE
@LIENROSE (910)
Philippines
March 4, 2010 4:34am CST
People have many fears, books and the internet will provide an intensive list of phobias man possess. While browsing the internet, the term autophobia caught my attention. I thought it was the fear from a car(lol). funny but it was the fear of being alone or of oneself to which I possess.
No one can claim that they can live alone, yes, man is a social being, no one ca claim that from birth, they can live all by themselves. Because they don't want to be hurt,I am one of those. You know what do hurt the most,it is when on the climax of my sufferings and aches,I find myself all alone.
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@hunterkim_07 (458)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
In my case I don't feel afraid being alone because I've been used to it (but not totally alone). Haha! There are times that it's better to be alone than having lots of people around you. You can concentrate on doing stuffs and all. But just like everything else, too much is bad. If there's one thing that makes me scared is being alone -totally - for the rest of my life...no friends, family and community around.
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
7 Mar 10
Well I think I can understand your point in there being recently broken hearted you would feel that way. But I think you still have family and friends who cares for you. I think there is no need to feel that you are alone because there are still others that still cares for you. I think that only thing that you need to do is start filling yourself with love. Sometimes it is a big mistake to depend you happiness and security to others. You should be responsible for getting what you want and looking for love and attention should not be relied on people around you. You should also relearn to love and care for yourself as a human being.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
5 Mar 10
hello lienrose,
actually i don't fear being alone, like being alone in the crowd or being alone in the house. something like that. actually there are times that i really wanted to be alone, haha to spend most of my time with myself and give myself a break. when i am alone i can do many things and have time to think about my life... but not always! haha just once in a while.
what i am afraid of is to be alone in my whole life, to be left alone with my loved ones. they are my inspiration & one of the reason why i love living this life...so without them, what kind of life will it be? one lonely & very sad life? i don't like that!
but i know, God will always be there to cheer me up & guide me...but again, just to think of living alone is kinda scary...coz it feels like we are nobody in this world...




