You ever been ashamed of your life by what you did?

@icesmile (7160)
Romania
March 12, 2010 6:09pm CST
You took a wrong decision, you have wronged because accuse someone of something without even know him, you take something from work and you never returned, or you lied your best friend that you're busy, when in fact you wanted to avoid it? Maybe you not visit your mother every time she wanted to see you, but now there's where to get her, or perhaps you look to much to your friend wife, and then you were ashamed? You were never ashamed of what you did?
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14 responses
• United States
13 Mar 10
I had to use the bathroom so abd one day. I could not hold it anylonger and I went in to my ex boyfriends front door and I went in and closed the door no one was in the main hall way. I did my business and left. I was not going to knock on the door and ask to use the rest room because he was beating me at the time. I was scared for my life most of the time around him.
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@Hatley (164232)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Mar 10
gifts you should not ever by ashamed of that as you used 'common sense, who would want to be beat just because she needed to go to the bathroom. the one to be ashamed should have been that ex boyfriend. shame shame on him.
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• United States
14 Mar 10
Thanks very much for this.
@celticeagle (123534)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Mar 10
I have accused someone of doing something because everything pointed to them or their history told me it was them. Then to look too much to? my friend's wife is rediculous. I would have been ashamed if I knew what it was I did that was so bad. I am totally confused. Help me, please!
@trohichko (197)
• Bulgaria
13 Mar 10
There were some moments in my life - everyone has such moments. Usually these are times when I've been egoistic or angry about something and sad things I should cause I've been angry or just to defend me and my point of view. I'm sure that not everyone admits easily for having such moments because of the ego, but people to understand your mistake is what makes you clever and makes you spiritually higher than you've been before.
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@Gany15k (1674)
• India
13 Mar 10
I have did one bad thing in my life.But it is not being ashamed but I feel more bad.I ask myself why I did that.Many times i felt bad.And I won't repeat that again.I had a fight with my father and went to my friend's house without informing to anyone.They searched me and my friends too searched.Then I came to know that y friends too searched.I felt very bad at that moment like why they have to search for my mistake...Then I came to know how much they care and love.So after that I decided not to repeat this in my life...Hope I won't..
@fattymc (140)
13 Mar 10
Many more times than any of you mylotters can believe. I'll just give some examples. I blocked one of my closest friends because he was addicted to some game and wouldn't leave me alone about it because he wanted to play. I've blocked him for some time because I didn't want to be interacted with him. Another time I accidently spilt a friend's secret to her boyfriend. That's probably the worst thing I've done. I can tell you I never regained the trust.
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@Hatley (164232)
• Garden Grove, California
13 Mar 10
hi icesmile yes several times but it was not because I am an evil person but I wanted to be accepted by the in crowd, the popular college kids, but I snubbed this really nice girl then one day we were together in one of the campus eating places and we got to talking. she was one of the nicest people and smartest people I would have ever meet.we became close friends and we were not invited in the popular ones sorority. and I found out I did not give a damn. they were all snotty and boringly stupid for college kids. Yes I was ashamed of spurning people simply because the in crowd did. I found out the in crowd were really a bunch of spoiled rich bratty kid snobs. This caused me to look for the real beauty in people and not the superficial snob appeal of rich spoiled adults. they are brats grown to adult years but still brattish.
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@dawnald (84075)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Mar 10
I'm pretty sure that anybody who says they never did anything to be ashamed of is a liar.
@olisaur (1931)
• United States
13 Mar 10
I think just about everyone who is human has been ashamed of a regrettable action before. ^-^ I am constantly haunted by guilt whenever I do something that negatively affected other people. I have always been an extremely self-concious person, but it took me a while to swallow my pride and not be afraid to admit my wrongs.
@phoenix8606 (4977)
13 Mar 10
hi! yes, i was ashamed once from something that I did with my best friend, but it wasn't a lie or a steal, but I and he to were really ashamed of our childish and rash act to some boy, who was a cousin of a girl-friend of ours. well, it happened the following- we were on the parade of the town, and then we saw that girl and her cousin.he was still a 8-9 years old kid with a hat, but he didn't have a eyebrows( maybe you already guess what have we done), and when we saw him, we acted so rash and haven't even thought of it, what could happen to him that he has no eyebrows, and then we asked him, is he shave his eyebrows so that they look that funny. Just imagine how shocked and ashamed we were when the boy answered to us, that he is sick and his eyebrows are gone because of the laser therapy. wow, that was the most embarrassing moment in my lief, and I have never felt more ashamed than I felt that day
@lingli_78 (12836)
• Australia
13 Mar 10
i think everyone of us did in one stage of our lives... even only once... so of course i did as well... i prefer not to think about it anymore and move on with my life... but i definitely try to learn from my mistake and not repeat it again in the future so that i won't embarrassed myself again... take care and have a nice day...
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
13 Mar 10
it motstly happens with everyody,and then get the pardon,and move on!
@marianna45 (1399)
• Romania
13 Mar 10
I am a pretty balanced, trying to think before i act, avoiding to be ashamed after a wrong decision. But i am human and i am fallible, indeed, I was embarrassed a few times in my life because I wrongly accused someone, and then I realized that I have hurried me. The biggest mistake I made one a while ago when I accused my best friend, do not do anything not to be alone, but then I realized that I am wrong, that is why they, and more better to help her get over these problems , nor accuse.
@besthope44 (12141)
• India
13 Mar 10
Yes, i lied my friend since i was very busy at work. I know if i say i was busy, she will feel bad. So i said i am leaving out. But she was very badly in need of my help. I never knew it. When next day i found she was sick coz she was no one that day to take her to doctor, I felt really bad of me so mean, as Health is important than work and should a lie will alwayz make us regret.
• Canada
13 Mar 10
Never. I am going to do what i am going to do, and there is no good reason why I should be ashamed of anything. I do not care what other people think of me, as long as I have respect for myself.