mother or father? / myLot

Philippines

March 19, 2010 3:05am CST

Nowadays were parents became busy with work and only one of them could able to spend quality time with their children, some people thought that it's better and more important for mothers to have time with their children than with father. That it's fine if father spend more time with work as long as mother were always there for their children in order to keep family in together. What do you think?

3 responses

Winky

@msfrancisco9369 (10002)

• Boston, Massachusetts

20 Mar 10

Hi Care, me and my hiusband are both working. we have a child caregiver to take and fetch them to school. she too help me in doing the household chores. every single moment that we have, we maximize it to make up for the kids. we are trying our best to provide what they need not only financially and for their education but the attention, love, care and support that they truly need. we just love our kids so much that we need to work hard to give them not only a better life but the best in life having two special kids.

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@careguarden (5670)

• Philippines

30 Jul 10

You are right even if we are not always in their side still we give our child a day to be loved. i mean, if both of you are busy it does not mean that you don't loved your child because I know that you are working so that they have a good future and they can buy what they want and you can give them. But I suggest that you and your husband give your child a weekends to enjoy and having a get together so that they feel that they really loved you. thanks for sharing you comments ans have a nice day ahead Godbless.

parrot2010

@parrot2010 (813)

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30 Jul 10

I think it's best if both parents spend an equal time with their children. Nowadays mothers are not seen as a child's primary carer as much as say fifty years ago. Now mothers have their careers and their jobs so the poors kids are sent to the daycare or something. I think that if you are planning on being really busy with your career then it would be selfish to have a child on top of all that since the child wouldn't get the care they need to have a normal childhood and won't be as close to their parents as they could have been.

careguarden

@careguarden (5670)

• Philippines

30 Jul 10

Yes, i agree with you parrot because of the high expenses today ,the mother andfather must do their best to work so that they can give their children a god future, a good education and give they want. it depends on how the parents explain to their children so that the children understand why their parents must work together. thanks for sharing your comments and have a nice day ahead Godbless

besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

• India

2 Apr 10

Well i beilieve mother plays major role at the home than father. Father plays major role at work. As most mothers stay home, they will take care of the kids in their character, education and growth.

careguarden

@careguarden (5670)

• Philippines

30 Jul 10

You are right. that's what i also believe. Mother must do the household shores together with their kids, educate them teach them. That's a reaponsibility and duties of being a mother. thanks for sharing you comments ans have a nice day ahead Godbless.