How much do you LOVE YOUR PARTNER
By avani26
@avani26 (1518)
India
March 23, 2010 1:40pm CST
First Instance (Reality) - I heard this from my hubby that one of his friends father was bedridden for a very long time, his mother used to take care of all his needs and did not keep any nurse. Then one day his father died and within a week his mother also passed away.
Do you feel that his mother loved his father so much that she could not bear his separation? As far as I am concerned I do feel that she was emotionally and mentally attached to him and his demise made her feel she has lost out the most important person and was heartbroken.
Second Instance (Movie) - I saw a movie today "P.S. I Love You" it is a bittersweet story about a young widow coping with the death of her husband who dies of brain tumor through letters he had written for her teaching her how to live and remember how to be happy with herself.
After seeing the movie I was so emotional that I could not wish but think that her husband who knew he was about to die forget all about his sickness but started planning on how his wife should not be sad but cope with life even without him. I was really touching story is that what love is?
Has anyone experienced something like this or heard about it. If yes please share your story and views.
2 responses
@crackx (628)
• Belgium
23 Mar 10
Even though love is very superficiel, I think it's one class you could put it in. Taking care of someone is being worried about that person. You try caring more on the one you love than others, that aren't as close.
Love is not only caring about the partner, but the way you live with him/her.
You can adress it as far as you want, love is everywhere...
I have heard about the movie, as some stories when I was younger. And they are really touching, but it all isn't the same as in the movies as you might know. But the way the partners connect can not be faked, that has to be real.
Taking care of someone until he/she passes away, has a very special meaning.
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