Now I prove that Action Speaks Louder THAN Words...

Philippines
March 31, 2010 10:46am CST
I know I really miss somebody but I could not just express it. And I realize that action is very powerful! And words could not able to beat it. Now I am really in trouble thinking how should I express my true feeling... this is for real---not for a discussion sake. How could I express when that someone is miles away? Agree with me friends? Had you experienced the same? How did you manage the kind of situation? Did you prove already too that Action really speaks Louder than Words?
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16 responses
@saphrina (31733)
• South Africa
31 Mar 10
Love tends to make one suffer in life. It will keep on beating the same tune over and over, just to make one's life miserable. But, i believe, when love keeps on beating that drum one will be able to dance to the song eventually. TATA.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
you are right My B... But I hope your last statement come true....
@saphrina (31733)
• South Africa
31 Mar 10
That only time and that damn drum will tell.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
So we should wait ... am I right? And extend our patience,
• United States
31 Mar 10
It is simple. Just say what is in your heart. Plainly and to the point. Wherever She? He? is Get into contact with them and tell them how you feel. Write, phone, text , email how ever you can reach them do it!Good Luck.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Well, I had just done it sarah, I will tell you if it'd work...
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• United States
2 Apr 10
Ok. Good Luck.
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Hi sarah, I am happy today... It worked...
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@yresh12 (3217)
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Letters, gifts... I'm not sure.. Assurance could be a very strong thing when it comes to a love one far away...
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
You are right yresh, I had tried one already, I hope it will work. I'll tell you soon...
@yresh12 (3217)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Yeah, am hoping to hear from yeah! good luck!
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
And I guessed it worked... I am so happy dear...
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
yes your right, i guess for most men they are more into action than women are into words. i always ask my bf before why he seldom says i love you to me though he always says why i ask, i can even feel it through his tight hug and kiss. though sometimes he also ask me why i always say i love you to him but im aloof. so i guess i still preferred action though a little bit of words sometimes.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
I really preferred action friend.... thank you so much for the honest answer...
@Hatley (164226)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Mar 10
hi homeshopper we women do want some words with the guys actions, its just the way we are.lol.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
@irent23 (148)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
1 Apr 10
well i believe it for the first time before..action speaks louder than words.but for me it depends on the situation you are into.For me my boyfriend is not here with me right now he's on his work far away.but we constantly do the chat all the time when he is free from his work.We always tell each other how much we love,how much we miss each other and most importantly how much we trust with each other.Because I believe that when you love someone there should Trust in it..And i think action doesn't really speaks louder than words it depends on the situation.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Nice answer my friend... Now, I am wishing you all the lick... I know for sure that you are really loving each other. Yes you are right, it's not always true that action speak louder than words, it perhaps depends on the situation sometimes, i8n your case, the most binding force now is trust... God bless you my dear friend...
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I mean wishing you all the luck my friend...
@Hatley (164226)
• Garden Grove, California
31 Mar 10
prime Write or phone or modern times now text I guess, I am not at all up on cellphones at all, do not own one. Phone her or him and tell this person what you feel, they will not know unless you open up and express yourself, also candy or flowers is a great way to say I love you too. No girl turns down flowers or candy usually, and I know I never did either. Prime I hope I do have your gender down correctly? forgive me if I do not, as I did not look up your profile, I have responded to many of your discussions so believe you once said you were a guy?
@saphrina (31733)
• South Africa
31 Mar 10
Sweetie, believe me, he is a guy. TATA.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
She is right hatley. And thanks for the sharing my friend.., you are really a pro in all aspects, I bow to you... and God bless...
@setsuna26 (2409)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I feel what you mean sometimes we miss a person whose pretty much far away from us. But all we can do is try and send an email to reach this person.Its better if this person is just near us and its better if you can tell the person directly how much you feel for him/her.There are certain feelings that you wont be able to express no matter what in writing.It is still much more passionate to express everything in front of the said person
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
You are right my friend, though we can still express how much we care for them but when they are away, words are still lacking... the spell and power of actions is unbeatable... at this point of time I am always sending her some messages, and i am happy it works... and how much more if she is here near me... thank you for the nice sharing... happy mylotting...
@besthope44 (12141)
• India
1 Apr 10
Well the answer is there Action. Say like if we want our love to prove we love them. Dont say you love them and change for them. Just examine what they want from us and do that next time, without they asking from us. Thus we can prove in actions. When they are miles, call them daily..send them some materials that they would require more at that place and best part, take time to go to their place and meet in person.
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Nice one my friend, and yes, at this time, I am always doing what you say... sending some materials that prove I really care for her... maybe it's not that powerful, but at least it can help a little, and I am so happy to know that it works...
• Bulgaria
1 Apr 10
actions do speak louder than words but... in along term sometimes the other person needs a little help in words to see more clearly the value of the actions ;) especially the ladies :) only don't get too lost in the words
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
You are right bro... yes it is. Sometimes we need to accompany chosen words for our action to make it just more powerful and effective...
@mods196621 (3629)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Yesi beleive that action is louder than words and it happened to me always. I talked a lot but when the time comes and he was in front of me the words that comes from my mouth doesn't exist but the action takes. Many times I change this into my mind but here i am always beats with my emotions thru actions. What is inside or what I feel comes out of my body language. That is really proven actions speaks louder than words.
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
excellent mods, that is true, words can never beat the power of actions. At this time, I really long to use that power, but I just can't. Because the person is miles away. But i know someday I can use that.... and I will further prove that actions is very powerful.
@umit_umit (1986)
• India
1 Apr 10
well it very true action is more powerful than words!well you go away from somebody life rather then start explaning the things to the person!it has happened with me,and i understood that this is practical action where it is 1000 times powerful than words!!
• Philippines
3 Apr 10
Wow, and i am really dreaming now to fly miles away to meet her, so that we will see how much I care for her my friend... But it's totally impossible now... all this time I am hoping that my words can make her happy... But I know someday It will happen, and my action becomes to powerful....
@cloud31 (5810)
1 Apr 10
I agree with you on this friend,I even prove that myself, I seldom put my feelings into words,I prefer to show into actions, but of course feeling give a better meaning when it says..
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Good my friend...
@bulastika (5967)
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
NO! It your talking about emotional aspect. Action will lead you to know where. It does not matter how you put it. Unless your deaf and mute theirs no excuse. You must speak. So what if she or he is miles away. You have phone and internet connection right? Then call her or him. .. Common be your self.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
Well, that's a straight forward nice response, I will take all that! Brilliant!!!
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
First, you should communicate with her regularly, one or twice per day. Then, save some amount to sent her flowers. Then try to feel if she feels the same way with you,then save some money to visit her. If it is impossible for you to visit her, chat with her daily.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
I can do the first thing my friend, but I guess it's impossible to achieve the others, well she's miles away.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
i've proven it time and again. back when i was a kid i was always annoyed by my classmate. he always hid my bag before dismissal. i told him i'm gonna thump him if he did it one more time and he did so i thumped him. my teacher caught me though so my parents were summoned. lol. the thing is, if you're gonna do something, just do it. NIKE says so. lol. don't just say it. do it. if you miss someone, do a gesture that means you really miss that person. i'm sure you've already thought of something but you're just not sure if it'd work.
• Philippines
1 Apr 10
You guess it right my friend.... but my problem now, I was thwarted with the distance... And I agree with you, if we want to do something, we should do it right then, with now words...
@picjim (3003)
• India
31 Mar 10
I also believe that actions speak louder than words.When someone is miles away you can speak to them through camera on net professing your love for that person.You can dispel their doubts through your sincere words.If the other requests or shows an inclination for anything do your best to get that item for your friend.It need not be material it could be a small work or any action which the other so desires.Ultimate aim is to prove that your actions speak for themselves and are more indicative of your feelings towards the person receiving your affection.
• Philippines
31 Mar 10
Perfect friend...it's really hard to show your real emotion in this virtual world...