Will you befriend your partners ex????
By laniekins
@laniekins (4579)
Philippines
April 7, 2010 4:05am CST
Hi,
I would like to ask if you are willing to befriend your partner's ex gf/bf? I am having a good relationship with my boyfriends ex gf right now. It started as hating this woman cause when my bf and I are just starting our relationship, that two manage to communicate even if the girl is abroad working. She text and sometimes call my bf, when I checked his mobile phone and saw the message I ask why did they have to communicate like that so often. My bf replied that they are good friends, I didn't like the idea cause I am a jealous type of girl and for me there are no reason to still communicate with her that often(that's for only my opinion. Until years has past, my curiosity with this girl grows even fonder, I search her in one particular social sites but I couldn't find even though I have her fullname. Until I kept on searching and found her in popular social sites, I made a profile and add her. At first I use my bf pics and details so that she will add me up. Not until I changed my profile as myself to add my friends and I fell inlove with that sites, I posted message and she surprisingly replied to it. Then we chatted and I found her nice enough with me. Until now, if we both online we chat. She is now happy with her found love on and Im happy with the same man the we fell inlove with. I could say we are in good terms even though we haven't met.
3 responses
@redhotpogo (4398)
• United States
7 Apr 10
No. Something is going on that you aren't aware of. Guys are not friends with their ex's. Guys don't do the friend thing. "oh lets just be friends." A straight guy would never do that. As long as she's playing friendly, and has you convinced there's nothing going on, then it makes it easier for them. You would never suspect an innocent meeting somewhere between two good friends,now would you?
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
Yeah your right, even if she's nice to me and they claim that they are friends, I still do not allow it if they see each other secretly. They should ask me first or I will go with them ( a chaperon?) haha. Nah! Just a friendly date with the three of us is ok. But just the two of them, hmmm.. I won't allow it!
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 10
Its good you now can make friend with your boy friend ex, I jealous type too. I am always try to use my common sense but if I related to jealousy my feeling won all time and I feel unsecured with my bf ex, maybe we just need to know better like you. We often fast judger judge our bf ex bad because she having good communication with our bf. Have a good day!
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
8 Apr 10
It depends on the girl/boy if they wants to be friends with you. Yes, I judge her before and I really hate her, but since she is nice to me there's no reason for me to hate her forever.
