Going to school wouldn't have hurt me if...

Philippines
April 17, 2010 6:08am CST
If only my father doesn't accuse me of cheating with my accounts in school. Never have I cheated him specially when it comes to my tuition. I really don't know why when well in fact, every transactions that I make in school are shown to him. I am feeling so disappointed.
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6 responses
@tomitomi (5440)
• Singapore
18 Apr 10
hi saranggola if you need to continue to go to college you have to put aside all these disappointments. i know its easier said than done but you just have to. bury yourself in books perhaps, talk to a friend or probably talk to your dad but remain focused on your studies. do it your way. your dad is just doing his job or he may have missed things which you can prove. if you have done the right thing you need not worry and your dad would see it in no time and would realized how wrong he had been. check with him how he wants things to be done and that would make things a lot easier in future.
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Thanks a lot tomi for that piece of advice. It helped me feel better. Really. Thanks.
@tomitomi (5440)
• Singapore
19 Apr 10
just focus on your studies. and take care! :)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I know what you feel. It's very frustrating when someone so close to you doesn't believe you and it sometimes gives us the temptation to just do the things which we were accused of. It boils down to a question of what should be -- "What should it be you trust me because I'm honest or I'm honest because you trust me?" Trust breeds honesty the same way that honesty breeds trust. You are honest so I believe that sooner or later you'll earn your father's trust.
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
I wish the same thing too. Thanks
@yresh12 (3217)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
Hello sarangola! I know how you feel of being accused with something you did not do. I just think that they should hear our part at times. My papa is okay now and he's learning to listen to us more and more. I think it was because of he was sick before that he can't think straight...
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Gee thanks. It felt better when someone understand what you feel
@Naxous (974)
• India
17 Apr 10
Hi friend don't be sad.We adults quite often think that our children are trying to cheat us while actually it may be totally different.Let me tell you about myself..I also sometimes fall in that category as your father and that's because I used to cheat my dad while I was a student and felt that it is my right to do so.So I can't trust my children.Maybe your dad has similar experience too and that's why he shouts on you and accuses you of cheating.Now it will be better if you ask your dad to maintain your accounts.Tell him to do all those that you are doing right now regarding finance and only then he will come to realise the fact.
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I think he suspects me because that's what he does during his days. It's not fair!
• India
17 Apr 10
hello your father must have some valid reason for suspecting you and your feeling disappointed is also justified, you can sit with him and settle the matter mutually.. Thanks for this nice post, cheers God bless you. Prof
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I don't wanna talk to him. I'm just so mad that I can not be sure of myself that I could not speak hurting words to him
@qamarep (4448)
• Pakistan
17 Apr 10
you and we all are suposed to be strong in life even of you are accused like this you dont have to take it very seriously