Discouragement
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
6 responses
@rosegardens (3032)
• United States
17 Apr 10
I guess it depends on the reason why they were discouraging. If it is because they do not feel it would be a good thing for me because I may get hurt somehow then it is best to weigh the options. If it is because they are disparaging and mean to be hurtful to keep me down then I just have to leave that person behind so their thoughts and opinions of me do not affect any decisions that need to be made.
Happy Mylotting!
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Yeah, of course its important to weigh down the reasons why they discourage you to do such things, than just jumping into a negative conclusion and give up what you really want and get discourage. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@grace24 (1049)
• Philippines
17 Apr 10
I encountered many people who discourage me along the way. They stop me on the things that I want to do. Sometimes discouragement can be taken positively or negatively depending on the situation. Sometimes, it helps me to avoid bad things in life.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
18 Apr 10
Yeah, it can be taken positively and prove that they're wrong, or avoid unfortunate events on the future. For me it could be depend on what kind of people who discourage me, if it's those people who hardly know me, then definitely I won't ever get discourage but if those people were close to me, I might feel bad. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your weekends!
@laglen (19759)
• United States
17 Apr 10
I use them for motivation. If it somebody that always give worse case scenario, I will think the situation through. If they are just plain toxic, I stay away from them.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
18 Apr 10
Hey careguarden! I am easily discouraged as it is by myself so
I don't listen to anyone! I can be miserable and confused all
by myself! I don't need anyone trying to add more negativity to
my life so I just don't bother listening! If I feel that someone
in my life is going to try to discourage me from doing things I
would have to let them go as friends and get them out of my
life!
@1hopefulman (45111)
• Canada
20 Apr 10
If I like doing something then I won't let anyone discourage me. Whose business is it to tell me what to do or not to do? I always thought that I should mind my own business and so should everyone else.
@bird123 (10658)
• United States
17 Apr 10
Listen to the advice of others but walk your own path!! No one can have the view from your shoes. No one can ever know your true capabilities. I find most people are much more capable than they realize. If you never try, nothing can happen. If you do try, the worst that can happen is you learn from your mistake. More is learned through mistakes than anything else. No successful person gets there without mistakes. Life is meant to be lived rather than hiding from problems.





