LIVING TOGETHER[Dating] Vs ONE MAN ONE WOMAN[Marriage]..........................

@umadper (947)
India
April 27, 2010 11:26am CST
what are the negative and positive points in both systems....in my view whatever the negative points may be there in one man one woman[marriage system,i support it only...
5 responses
• United States
27 Apr 10
I am all for the institution of marriage, have been married 8 years today. But in some instances the two parties involved may have reasons for not wishing to be married. These cases could range from a deceased hubands retirement payment to issues with alamony or child custody. Each case should be looked at as to why they are choosing the lifestyle. As long as the couple is committed to one another we should not judge them without knowing all of the facts.
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@umadper (947)
• India
3 May 10
hi,sleepy,anybody can live in any style as far as problems not exists,misunderstandings not exists,egoism not prevail...but the social security,elders wishes could possible to the couple who married officially..
@umadper (947)
• India
19 Jan 11
hi,congrats for getting the best response mark.
• Philippines
2 May 10
how i wished in my life i could find a man which is one man and one woman..I don't want just pleasure, I don't want live in, or the so called live-in it is prohibited in our law. and not good in the eyes of the public...It is nice that people wil gonna see us officially married
@umadper (947)
• India
3 May 10
hi,world,yes,most of the people in the society prefer official marriage..even few are ready to live as unofficial[not legal]they will face somany problems in future..
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
28 Apr 10
There is always a sanctified bond in a marriage. They are made man and woman in front of divine power and well wishers. In a living in arrangement, that sanctity does not exist. In case of misunderstanding, this bond will indirectly work on their minds and patches the ill-feeling amongst them. They will reconcile mostly.
@umadper (947)
• India
3 May 10
hi,Bulla,you have mentioned the appropriate meaning for marriage and the greatness and importance of Marriage especially in our country.
@JAYMAR777 (839)
• Philippines
27 Apr 10
I always believe in the sanctity of marriage. I am open minded and not very legalistic but I always believe that there is blessing in a marriage. That has always been my viewpoint about marriage. Living together is like you want to be together but not the commitment, of which for me I will feel insecure. And insecurity will lead to many arguments and fights. So I rather be on the side of security after all if you married somebody it means you love that someone through good and bad times.
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@umadper (947)
• India
2 May 10
hi,jay,you perfectly understood the real essence of marriage..we Indians feel great regarding this marriage system..we ,our society don't agree for living together...At any stage these couples not show interest to depart by divorce...
• China
2 May 10
i think if both of them have enough space to live in,they can choose any way.when i have to face to the problem,i think one man one woman better way.it is not negative but positive.persons who are even closets to each other must have their own privacies.let's protect the privacies of each other's.
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@umadper (947)
• India
2 May 10
hi,you are right,but how much privacy one should require..you mean whatever the other partner do/behave,we don't ask/interfere..is it privacy.Once both become partners for life long,there is no need to having separate agendas...I love Indian culture and the marriage systems..where they don't have frequent divorces problem and again they have social security..