Being dumped/busted
By juggerogre
@juggerogre (1653)
Philippines
May 21, 2010 11:06pm CST
Hey there. My friend just recently get busted/dumped by the girl he's courting for 2 years now. I really don't get the girl why she waited for 2 years before dumping my friend.
So for guys what's the longest time it took you to court a girl and just be busted in the end? And how long do you usually court a girl before you feel like giving up? For girls what's the longest time it took you to dumped a guy? And why wait that long (if it really that long)...
7 responses
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
22 May 10
he courted for two years? am 35 years old and that means i might be an ancient here in mylot but even during my time nobody courts for 2 years. doesn't the guy have any options? i mean maybe not other girls in mind but at least a time frame in mind wherein his ideal girl would let him court her? besides, what kind of girl makes a man court her for two years? peace 
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.@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
22 May 10
That's what we're telling him. Move on and find another girl. But he's so in love or blinded or insensitive with this girl that he won't give up no matter what. He keeps telling us that if she doesn't love him why haven't she dumped him? And there. She dumped him. And yes. I don't know why the girl took that long before she dumped her. I don't want to say anything bad about her since I really don't know her. But at least my friend is starting to move on.... after 2 weeks of daily inuman session...
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@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
24 May 10
For me, when I was younger if I really don't like the guy, from the start he will know that he is busted. He even don't get the chance to talk to me. If I am comfortable with the guy or I felt we have a future together maybe it will take a few months to give accept him. For that girl, maybe she thought she like the guy but there is still hesitation, then she found someone whom she likes better that's why she dumped the other guy.
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
22 May 10
for me, one month is enough to tell you if you really stand a chance, don't get me wrong i know the value of courtship and waiting, but i put weight more on the actual relationship itself, courting is just a stage where you lay your intension, the real test is on the relationship itself, courting will only show the good side you, as you are trying to impress her.
@eil_noz (961)
• Philippines
22 May 10
My that's so sad for your friend and he might definitely feel bad about it.
Waste of time and effort. Well, when I tried having a suitor uhm... not an official suitor really since he asked me if he could but I refused him. I mean, I never did give a chance for him to even show off because he might regret it. The girl who dumped your friend might just want to prove something for herself.
@zhangxia (87)
• China
22 May 10
girls want a lot of bays around they .they want to be the spotlight .they want comfort when they feel upset .but if when they were doing something ,and the boys texted they .girls would feel disturbed if the boys who they were not really like .i hate these girls .if she doesnt like me ,i will leave .
@adeena2000 (845)
• Philippines
22 May 10
As a girl, that was the right thing to do. You don't have to be girlfriend and boyfriend right away. You still need time to realize and know each other well if you fit to have a relationship. Maybe that was their "friendship or courtship stage".
Time has come that the girl needed to decide what do they mean to each other. Maybe she became aware of the characteristic she wanted to have in a boyfriend. Maybe your boyfriend didn't deserve it. The guy maybe expecting too much.
