how to be good listener
By willy6
@willy6 (498)
Jamaica
June 14, 2010 5:35pm CST
Listening is an important aspect of human
communication.Listening a quite different
from hearing someone.Listening patiently
solve problem effeciently.Using understanding
and a wide spread of empathy develope to be
a good listener.
Putting you self in the person situaton
in your mine also helps you.
Talk less and listen more are other wise be
silentto listen to everything the person is
saying.Do not be distracted or avoid being distracted.
wait untill the person ask you for your option in
the situation this to not to allow you to distrat
the person from what he/she is saying.
Listening is the vital way to learn from what
people is saying so let us listen more so we can learn more.
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2 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
as what the sister act movie sang.... if you want to be somebody, if you want to go somewhere PAY ATTENTION.... listening means understanding what the other person is trying to say. but sometimes there are people who loves to talk but they never listens. so i give them what they deserve. if they only want to talk and they dont like to listen i will not stay there and listen all day long. it has to be a give and take relationship.
@Cutie18f (9546)
• Philippines
14 Jun 10
Listening is the foundation of good communication. People who can't listen have problems communicating with others. I think the best communicators are those who listen much of the time. It is very easy to understand everything when we know the issues on hand and it is hard to learn things when we only listen to ourselves. LOL. How does one become a good listener? Simple. You simply have to practice it. Start little by zipping up your big mouth at first and focus your ears on the speaker. Only you can train yourself to do this.
