Nice Guys
By vjenkins86
@vjenkins86 (1478)
United States
June 17, 2010 9:46pm CST
Sometimes its hard to find the nice guys in the world. An article I read, though, claims that these five traits will help identify if the guy is a good guy.
1) He's goofy and sincere. If he's real, he will be real in front of you which means he won't mind showing his non-suave side.
2) He remember personal details and events. Charmers are too concerned about themselves while nice guys want to remember things about you.
3) He treats his mama right. How he treats his mother (usually) is a good reflection of how he treats the women in his life.
4) He can mingle. He doesn't mind meeting other people and not be the center of attention.
5) He says "I love you." If he talks around those three words, making sure that they don't come out of his mouth, it's best to let him go.
I'm sure there are other traits of nice guys that weren't mentioned. What would you add to or subtract from this list?
I would add that he accepts you for who you are, doesn't want to change you.
3 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
also nice guys always care for the girl, always be there to whipe her tears even when is him that make them cry, also says sorry when he does something wrong, also do romantic gestures to show how much he loves her^^ thats what i have to add in your list^^ a sweet cute guy is like this with all these qualities dont you agree?^^ yuhuuu all guys should be like this ahah^^
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
15 Jul 10
I completely agree with those added qualities. There should be a class that boys have to take to be taught how to be nice guys. hahaha.
Thanks for responding.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
also not racist and not against g a y people^^ we must respect everyone^^
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
18 Jun 10
Too bad we can't just take these traits from different guys, put em together in a nice package and ta-da: Perfect guy- ready and real. Drats.
@myswirlyagelessmind (379)
• Philippines
18 Jun 10
those are very good points! but they're so hard to find...like endangered species! anyway, i'm a sucker for manners and most guys nowadays don't have chivalry alive in their being which is such a bummer. anyway, i think guys who are truly nice are not discriminatory when it comes to being a gentleman, they're not just nice to you because they like you but they're just sweet and considerate to everybody.
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
18 Jun 10
Manners are very important and chivalry is a rare thing to find. Boys should be sent to manner or etiquette classes or something. lol.
