How would you react to people who always take things for granted ?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
July 1, 2010 7:16am CST
It is good to help others and have somebody help us as well.But there are times ,we may encounter someone who claim to be the one who need help all the time and acutually they can do the things by themselves.On the other hand,some people may act like they are offering help to us but actually they jsut want to get need to the ladies (Some would be full of evil thought in their mind) or some may want to get near some men in order to trick themfor something (in order to satisfly their own greedy thought).Whatever it is,we should always be caution about this and many people have been hurted because of their naive thinking or too simple minded.What do you think ?Share your experience.
2 responses
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
2 Jul 10
Lately, I haven't had much to be taken for granted. I see that my sister is sort of like my mother. Many years ago she supposedly went in on buying a present for my mother and never paid. Later, I needed help from others (not her) and when I complained to her, she started raising up matters like I owed people money (which I did), but it made me mad for her to be hypocritical like that. Lately, she borrowed some money from me. I sort of knew I wouldn't get it back. I feel that you help people whether it seems like they're taking you for granted or not because 1) they might really need it (it's like the boy who cried "wolf". There's going to be a time when the wolf really shows up. 
2) In these bad economic times, you never know when it might be the last time you see that person. Don't give guilt feelings a ride. And remember, the guilt feelings monkey will hop on their back when they don't do right.
2) In these bad economic times, you never know when it might be the last time you see that person. Don't give guilt feelings a ride. And remember, the guilt feelings monkey will hop on their back when they don't do right. 
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
1 Jul 10
These are unique type of people who are specialized in Selfish acts. I faced lot of problem with such type of people.
Nothing can mend these people who have their own style of thinking and feel they are the right one's and others are wrong. They boast themselves as if they have lot of knowledge and look others in a down angle.
I simply avoid these people.....
I simply avoid these people.....