whether the critic is better than being criticized
By advokatku
@advokatku (4033)
Indonesia
July 8, 2010 7:49am CST
People are fond of criticizing and demeaning others, often do not realize that he had criticized from PLACE OF MORE LOW. Whatever their critics, stay focused on learning and work to make yourself better and more capable.
Usually, the PEOPLE who love to criticize others, his life is NOT BETTER ... THAN who criticized.
But, still must be remembered, if fear to criticism, better not to appear or don't be a leader. In a scientific paper alone will always be closed with the sentence request comments and suggestions..
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5 responses
@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
22 Jul 10
Hello friend many persons get pleasure in critisizing others, instead they should suggest better ways for improvement, help in any manner possible, give moral support..
Thanks for this wonderful post.
God bless you friend, cheers.
Professor. .
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
12 Jul 10
There is a huge difference between destructive criticism and constructive criticism. The latter can help a person learn and be better (if they are willing to take it) and the former can only tear a person down and make them feel bad. A good critic knows the difference.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Jul 10
advokatku there is a difference between trying to help someone and suggest a better way of doing something and real criticism as I have often tried to explain to new ones here that they should read the rules a nd guidelines and the questions and answers. I do not take kindly to someone saying I am just being critical. To show someone why they were having all their discussions deleted is just giving information, not being critical yet a lot of people do not seem to see the difference. I do not love to criticize anyone but love to help newcomers to see why they have d eleted discussions.A criticizer is someone who has low self esteem
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@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
i think we should make a distinction between plain rude criticism and constructive criticism.
i do believe some people criticize in an effort to help. some people do not realize their flaws and those who care about them help them see these imperfections through mild criticisms.
but i also do recognize the fact that some people criticize to degrade others. and that's just plain bad.
@Kazegatana (152)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
Yeah that is very right, usually the people who love to criticize the others his or her life is not better than who they criticized. But the people always love to criticize people than being criticized. For sure, being criticized has more need positive thinking and open minded than only criticized the others. May be the way to criticized must be changed, so people being open mind when they are being criticized, they feel like have suggestin not criticized.
