Polygamous nature of men

@hushi22 (4927)
July 23, 2010 6:29pm CST
It seems like men are really polygamous in nature, but I also noticed that women these days are following the same trend. Should girls accept this fact or should everyone accept the entire issue that polygamy is a human nature?
5 responses
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
it depends to the person if they will become contented with one or more. though most of the time men are really polygamous as they are not contented with just one. maybe they will tell you your the only one but who knows what they're doing specially if your not around them as theres too many temptation everywhere.
@maean_19 (4656)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Please bear in mind that you used the term "nature". I have been into relationships and experienced became the first and second best, likewise been into an unfaithful situation. In other words, I can speak in defense to women being polygamous. It cannot be considered as a woman nature because there are reasons behind the unfaithfulness compared to men. The male gender by nature is polygamous because it is innate. Although, it does not mean that all men are polygamous. There is a difference between the phrases "men by nature are polygamous" and "all men are polygamous"....Analyze the difference. Meaning, the former treats the male gender, but it does not generalize that all male gender are polygamous. Women in the issue of polygamy cannot be treated as following men. Women being unfaithful is a result of a "need" or "attention" which she cannot find from her current relationship. Whereas, men being unfaithful is a result of "human nature". When a man is unfaithful, no matter how you control or avoid it, you just can't because it is a "guy thing" and you end up saying, "he is just a man/guy"....Ask the guys why they are not contented to only one, they will just answer you with "nothing".... On the other hand, ask the women why they are unfaithful, they can specifically tell you the reason...This only proves that it is not a natural characteristic of women to be unfaithful. I guess, I have dealt the difference clearly now.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Jul 10
Polygamous is perhaps human nature.women were restricted to live with morals in the past few centuries.Basically women seem to strict to a relationship than men. They are designed so, I think. It's true today' women want to have more relationships.
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
24 Jul 10
I am not surprised when you shifted the blame to men as polygamous. Marriage whether be it monogamous or polygamous, it an union out of conscencious and covenantal that is entered into by a man and woman. In polygamous situation when a second woman enters in to a marital relationship with a married man, she unknowingly agreed or conscent to that relationship. It is not men who are always on the wrong. In one of discussion of gender and women issue in our community, I urge the women not deprive their own womenfold of their husbands by marrying them. So we need to educate our women and not to shift blame to men.
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Women should not do things like that.They should be a model.It's ok for us men to do polygamous things but girls.ha ha